How Boys Flirt With Girls.....?
Bismillahir Rahman Nirrahim
Aaj k naujawan ladke bholi bhali ladkiyo
ko jaal me fasane me maharat hasil kar
chuke hain. Aam taur par ladkiya
tajrabakar nahi hoti or ladke har nayi
ladki ko aisi chalaki se karib karte hain k
aqal dang rah jati he.
Agar ladki unko deendar nazar aati he
to
us se neki or namaz ki baate shuru kar
dete hain, us ladki ko kehte hain k
ttmhari wajah se mere dil me nek banne
ka shauk paida ho gaya he, agar ladki k
andar hamdardi nazar aati he to
uske
samne apni pareshaniya sunana shuru
kar dete hain. Agar ladki garib hoti he to
usko nokri dilwane ya apne paawn par
khada hone ka mashwara dete hain.
Agar ladki naaz nakhre wali ho to uski
tarifo k pul baandh dete hain agar ladki
dekhne me sidi sadi shakal rakhti he
to
usko kehte hain k tumhare chehre par
sadgi ka nur nazar aata he.
Agar kuch samajhme na aaye to kehte
hain k mere dil me aap ka bada ehteram
or izzat he, aap ki sharafat mujhe
achchhi lagi, garz koi na koi aisi baat
karte hain
jo us ladki ki dukhti rag hoti
He. Jab ladki baat-chit karna shuru kar
deti he to fir dhire dhire use shishe me
utarna shuru kar dete hain. Uski
birthdate likh lete hai take use
mubarakbad di ja sake, sms me aisi
shayriya likhte hain k padhne wala dil
tham k reh jae, kabhi kehte hain k mujhe
aap khate waqt yaad aayi, namaz me
yaad aayi agar che wo toilet me yaad
aayi ho. Agar ladki namazi ho to kehte
hain kmere liye duwa karna mujhe ap ki
duwa k qabul hone ka bada yaqin he.
Maqsad ye hota he k wo ladki bhi koi baat
kare fir baat se baat aage badhe. In sab
hathkando se ladki hamse baat-chit
kare, hansi mazak kare, apni persnal
baate kare. Uske baad ladki ko yaqin
dilate hain k meri niyyat buri nahi he
magar mujhe aap se pyar ho gaya he.
Zabanse kehte hain I LOVE U magar
dilme kehte hain I NEED U (mujhe aap ki
zarurat he) jab dekhte hain k ab ek
kadam or aage badhaya ja sakta he to us
ladki ko apne jhute ishq ki dastan sunate
hai, use apne khwab sunate hain
k aaj
raat mene khwab me ek ladki k sath ye
kiya wo kiya. Is par b agar ladki kuchh na
bole to fir filmo or gaano k baare me baat
chit shuru kar dete hai, pu6te hain
tumhe konsa gana pasand he mujhe to
ye pasand he, tumhe konsi film pasand
he mujhe to ye pasand he. Fir us ladki se
kehte hain
k mera dil chahta he k aap ke
pas beth kar aamne saamne ji bharke
baate karu mere liye kuch waqt nikalo.
Garmi k mosam me kehte hain k thandi
sadak ho or ham dono us par nange
paawn chalte chalte thak jaye or usi par
so jaye. Sardi k mosam me kehte hain
k
ham ek charpayi par bethe baate karte
rahe or hamare hath-pair kambal me
lipte ho.
Agar ladki aisi baat bhi khushi se sunle
to samajhte hain k manzil karib he. Fir us
ladki se akele me milne ko kehte hain.
Thodi der k baat kehte hain k gale mil lo,
ek baar apni aankho ka bosa lene do fir
kabhi aisa nahi karunga. Agar ijazat mile
to har mulaqat me khulte jate hain
or
aakhir me zina kar bethte hain. Maqsad
sirf ladki se apni shahwat (sex) pura
karna hota he. Lekin jis ladki se ek baar
apni shahwat (sex) pura kar lete hain
us
se kabhi shadi k liye tayyar nahi hote. Dil
me ye baat hoti he k jo ladki kunwari
hote huwemujhse jismani mel rakh sakti
he wo meri biwi ban gai to dusro se
jismani ta’alluk kyu nahi jodegi.
Aam taur par aisi shadiya nahi hoti agar
ho bhi jawe to do reason ki wajah se talaq
ho jati he.
(1) shohar apni biwi k baare me shakki
ban jata he, yaha tak k agar ladki apne
sage bhai se bhi muskura kar baat kar le
o shohar ko shak hota he,
agar ladki
apne maayke jane ki ijazat mangti he to
shohar mana kar deta he. Sochta he k
maike jakar kisi k sath mil na jae. Ek
talim yafta naujawan ki pasand kishadi
hui to wo office jate waqt ghar ko tala
lagakar jata tha, kisi ne pucha k ghar me
biwi ko arjunt zarurat pad sakti he. Aap
use band kyu kar dete hain ?
To usne
jawab diya k jo ladki apne maa-baap se
chhupa kar muhabbat kar sakti he wo
Tujhse chhup kar kisi padoshi se
muhabbat kyu nahi kar sakti. Is se
andaza lagana chahiye k chhupi dosti
karne wali ladkiya kis tarah apna
bharosa kho bethti hain.
(2) shadi k naakaam hone ki dusri wajah
ye hoti he k shadi se pehle ladka har
baat me ladki ki tarif karta tha, uski har
ulti ko sidhi kehta tha. Ab shadi k baad
haqiqat me wo husband ban kar rahta
he,
sahi ko sahi or galat ko galat kehta
he. Ladki samajhti he ke pehle me
achchhi thi ab kya huwa ke mujhme
khamiya nazar ane lagi is tarah aapas me
jhagde shuru ho jate hain. Kabhi aisa
hota he k ladka shadi to kar leta he par
usko chhupi muhabbat ki lat lag jati he.
Fir wo dusri ladki se wahi pyar muhabbat
shuru kar deta he jis ki wajah se pehli
shadi naakaam ho jati he.
Ladkiyo k sath friendship se dil me yahi
baat hoti he k ladki se apni khwahish
puri karo jitna arsaa daaw lag sake.
Jab
ladki majbur kare k apni walida ko rishta
lekar kyu nahi bhejte to bahane banate
hain. Agar ladki samajhdar hoti he to
piche hatne lagti he, to use burayi k liye
majbur karte hain. Ladki ko kabhi kehte
hain k me goliyaa kha lunga, me pankhe
se latak jaunga, me tumhare name
khatlikh kar chhat se kud jaunga.
Agar tum mujhe nahi mili to. Is tarah
jitna waqt nikal sakta h e nikalte hain,
Agar ladki ke parents uska rishta kisi or
jagah karna chahte hain to ladki k
samne udasi ki baate karte hain, k me
tumhare bagair zinda nahi rah sakunga,
tum ne mera sukun chin liya, tumhari
wajah se mera padhai me dil nahi lagta is
wajah se me fail ho gaya, agar tum mere
sath shadi na karogi to me thik us waqt
khud kushi karunga jab tumhari doli
uthegi, yaad rakhna agar tumne mere
sath shadi na ki to me tumhare hone
wale khawind ko sab bata dunga, me
tumhare khawind ko tumhare khat
dikhaunga, tumhare photo dikhaunga,
tumko talaq dilwakar rahunga, ab tum
meri biwi ban kar hi zinda rah sakogi,
Ladki bechari in jhuti makkaariyo se
achchhe achchhe rishte thukra deti he,
walidain k samne zillat or ruswai
bardasht karti he magar zid karti he k
mera rishta fula ladke se hi kiya jae
warna me khud kushi kar lungi, kahi
chali jaungi.
Fir agar ladki us ladke se kehti he apni
walida ko hamare ghar bhejo mere ghar
wale haa kar denge. To ladka jab dekhta
he
k ladki har taraf se kat kar mere liye
farig ho gai to wo us se jinsi ta’alluqat
(shariri k sambandh) bar qarar rakhta he
magar walida ko bhejne k baare me
bhane karta he. Kabhi kehta he k fula
kaam ki wajah se ammi masroof hain,
kabhi kehta he k fulaa baat paish aag gai
to ghar me baat kaise karu samajh me
nahi aata.
Jab ladki ziyada majbur karti he to ladka
keh deta he k meri ammi nahi manti,
kayu karu mere abbu nahi mante.
Is
tarah waqt guzar deta he. Ladki ko
musibat me dal deta he. Wo na idhar ki
rehti he na udhar ki, Aise mod par
pahunch kar kuch ladkiyaa khud kushi
kar leti hain,
kuch din raat wazife karti
hain k ladka apni maa ko bhej dewe,
kuch ladkiyaa mannate manti hain
ya
tawiz dhage k piche lag jati hain. Kuch
apni galati ko manne k bajae namaz
padhna chhod deti hain k Allah ta’aala
meri duwa kabul hi nahi karte. Galati
aapni hoti he. Ladka us ladki se shahwat
puri kar chuka hota he, ab wo ladki uski
nazar me istimal kiye huwe toilet paper
ki tarah hoti he, is wajah se wo ladki ko
talta rehta he or milna band kar deta he.
Aakhir me itna kahunga k jo ladkiyaa
apni izzat ki kadar o kimat janti hain
wo
lakho pareshaniyo k hote huwe bhi gair
mahram ki taraf baal barabar bhi
mutawajjeh nahi hoti, naa hi unko karib
aane ka mauka deti hain. Aisi aurto
(ladkiyo) ko allah ta’aala apne karib kar
lete hain or apni marifat ka nur ataa
farmate hain.
GHAR KE BAHAR CHEHRE KA PARDA
Aye Nabi! Apni biwiyon, betiyon aur
momino ki aurato se kehdo ke jab wo
bahar nikla karein, toh apne cheharo par
apni chadarein latkaa kar (ghoongat)
liya karein, ye amal inke liye moujjib-e-
shina qt aur (imtiyaz) hoga, toh inko koyi
izaa na dega.
Surah Ahzaab:59
Ye ayat ghar se bahar parde ke mutaluq
hai ke ghar se bahar jaana ho toh jisam
ke saath saath chehare ko bhi chupaa
kar niklein,
is ayat ke mutaluq Qayamat
ke din Allah Taala sawaal karega.
Log
be-bunyad baat kehte hai ke chehara
aur haato ka parda nahi hai, Quran ki is
ayat se wazeh ho raha hai ke chehare ka
parda wajib hai.
Hazrat Asma(radiallahu anha) kehti ke hum ghair-mardo se
apna chehara chupaya karti thi
How Boys Flirt With Girls.....?
Bismillahir Rahman Nirrahim
Aaj k naujawan ladke bholi bhali ladkiyo
ko jaal me fasane me maharat hasil kar
chuke hain. Aam taur par ladkiya
tajrabakar nahi hoti or ladke har nayi
ladki ko aisi chalaki se karib karte hain k
aqal dang rah jati he.
Agar ladki unko deendar nazar aati he
to
us se neki or namaz ki baate shuru kar
dete hain, us ladki ko kehte hain k
ttmhari wajah se mere dil me nek banne
ka shauk paida ho gaya he, agar ladki k
andar hamdardi nazar aati he to
uske
samne apni pareshaniya sunana shuru
kar dete hain. Agar ladki garib hoti he to
usko nokri dilwane ya apne paawn par
khada hone ka mashwara dete hain.
Agar ladki naaz nakhre wali ho to uski
tarifo k pul baandh dete hain agar ladki
dekhne me sidi sadi shakal rakhti he
to
usko kehte hain k tumhare chehre par
sadgi ka nur nazar aata he.
Agar kuch samajhme na aaye to kehte
hain k mere dil me aap ka bada ehteram
or izzat he, aap ki sharafat mujhe
achchhi lagi, garz koi na koi aisi baat
karte hain
jo us ladki ki dukhti rag hoti
He. Jab ladki baat-chit karna shuru kar
deti he to fir dhire dhire use shishe me
utarna shuru kar dete hain. Uski
birthdate likh lete hai take use
mubarakbad di ja sake, sms me aisi
shayriya likhte hain k padhne wala dil
tham k reh jae, kabhi kehte hain k mujhe
aap khate waqt yaad aayi, namaz me
yaad aayi agar che wo toilet me yaad
aayi ho. Agar ladki namazi ho to kehte
hain kmere liye duwa karna mujhe ap ki
duwa k qabul hone ka bada yaqin he.
Maqsad ye hota he k wo ladki bhi koi baat
kare fir baat se baat aage badhe. In sab
hathkando se ladki hamse baat-chit
kare, hansi mazak kare, apni persnal
baate kare. Uske baad ladki ko yaqin
dilate hain k meri niyyat buri nahi he
magar mujhe aap se pyar ho gaya he.
Zabanse kehte hain I LOVE U magar
dilme kehte hain I NEED U (mujhe aap ki
zarurat he) jab dekhte hain k ab ek
kadam or aage badhaya ja sakta he to us
ladki ko apne jhute ishq ki dastan sunate
hai, use apne khwab sunate hain
k aaj
raat mene khwab me ek ladki k sath ye
kiya wo kiya. Is par b agar ladki kuchh na
bole to fir filmo or gaano k baare me baat
chit shuru kar dete hai, pu6te hain
tumhe konsa gana pasand he mujhe to
ye pasand he, tumhe konsi film pasand
he mujhe to ye pasand he. Fir us ladki se
kehte hain
k mera dil chahta he k aap ke
pas beth kar aamne saamne ji bharke
baate karu mere liye kuch waqt nikalo.
Garmi k mosam me kehte hain k thandi
sadak ho or ham dono us par nange
paawn chalte chalte thak jaye or usi par
so jaye. Sardi k mosam me kehte hain
k
ham ek charpayi par bethe baate karte
rahe or hamare hath-pair kambal me
lipte ho.
Agar ladki aisi baat bhi khushi se sunle
to samajhte hain k manzil karib he. Fir us
ladki se akele me milne ko kehte hain.
Thodi der k baat kehte hain k gale mil lo,
ek baar apni aankho ka bosa lene do fir
kabhi aisa nahi karunga. Agar ijazat mile
to har mulaqat me khulte jate hain
or
aakhir me zina kar bethte hain. Maqsad
sirf ladki se apni shahwat (sex) pura
karna hota he. Lekin jis ladki se ek baar
apni shahwat (sex) pura kar lete hain
us
se kabhi shadi k liye tayyar nahi hote. Dil
me ye baat hoti he k jo ladki kunwari
hote huwemujhse jismani mel rakh sakti
he wo meri biwi ban gai to dusro se
jismani ta’alluk kyu nahi jodegi.
Aam taur par aisi shadiya nahi hoti agar
ho bhi jawe to do reason ki wajah se talaq
ho jati he.
(1) shohar apni biwi k baare me shakki
ban jata he, yaha tak k agar ladki apne
sage bhai se bhi muskura kar baat kar le
o shohar ko shak hota he,
agar ladki
apne maayke jane ki ijazat mangti he to
shohar mana kar deta he. Sochta he k
maike jakar kisi k sath mil na jae. Ek
talim yafta naujawan ki pasand kishadi
hui to wo office jate waqt ghar ko tala
lagakar jata tha, kisi ne pucha k ghar me
biwi ko arjunt zarurat pad sakti he. Aap
use band kyu kar dete hain ?
To usne
jawab diya k jo ladki apne maa-baap se
chhupa kar muhabbat kar sakti he wo
Tujhse chhup kar kisi padoshi se
muhabbat kyu nahi kar sakti. Is se
andaza lagana chahiye k chhupi dosti
karne wali ladkiya kis tarah apna
bharosa kho bethti hain.
(2) shadi k naakaam hone ki dusri wajah
ye hoti he k shadi se pehle ladka har
baat me ladki ki tarif karta tha, uski har
ulti ko sidhi kehta tha. Ab shadi k baad
haqiqat me wo husband ban kar rahta
he,
sahi ko sahi or galat ko galat kehta
he. Ladki samajhti he ke pehle me
achchhi thi ab kya huwa ke mujhme
khamiya nazar ane lagi is tarah aapas me
jhagde shuru ho jate hain. Kabhi aisa
hota he k ladka shadi to kar leta he par
usko chhupi muhabbat ki lat lag jati he.
Fir wo dusri ladki se wahi pyar muhabbat
shuru kar deta he jis ki wajah se pehli
shadi naakaam ho jati he.
Ladkiyo k sath friendship se dil me yahi
baat hoti he k ladki se apni khwahish
puri karo jitna arsaa daaw lag sake.
Jab
ladki majbur kare k apni walida ko rishta
lekar kyu nahi bhejte to bahane banate
hain. Agar ladki samajhdar hoti he to
piche hatne lagti he, to use burayi k liye
majbur karte hain. Ladki ko kabhi kehte
hain k me goliyaa kha lunga, me pankhe
se latak jaunga, me tumhare name
khatlikh kar chhat se kud jaunga.
Agar tum mujhe nahi mili to. Is tarah
jitna waqt nikal sakta h e nikalte hain,
Agar ladki ke parents uska rishta kisi or
jagah karna chahte hain to ladki k
samne udasi ki baate karte hain, k me
tumhare bagair zinda nahi rah sakunga,
tum ne mera sukun chin liya, tumhari
wajah se mera padhai me dil nahi lagta is
wajah se me fail ho gaya, agar tum mere
sath shadi na karogi to me thik us waqt
khud kushi karunga jab tumhari doli
uthegi, yaad rakhna agar tumne mere
sath shadi na ki to me tumhare hone
wale khawind ko sab bata dunga, me
tumhare khawind ko tumhare khat
dikhaunga, tumhare photo dikhaunga,
tumko talaq dilwakar rahunga, ab tum
meri biwi ban kar hi zinda rah sakogi,
Ladki bechari in jhuti makkaariyo se
achchhe achchhe rishte thukra deti he,
walidain k samne zillat or ruswai
bardasht karti he magar zid karti he k
mera rishta fula ladke se hi kiya jae
warna me khud kushi kar lungi, kahi
chali jaungi.
Fir agar ladki us ladke se kehti he apni
walida ko hamare ghar bhejo mere ghar
wale haa kar denge. To ladka jab dekhta
he
k ladki har taraf se kat kar mere liye
farig ho gai to wo us se jinsi ta’alluqat
(shariri k sambandh) bar qarar rakhta he
magar walida ko bhejne k baare me
bhane karta he. Kabhi kehta he k fula
kaam ki wajah se ammi masroof hain,
kabhi kehta he k fulaa baat paish aag gai
to ghar me baat kaise karu samajh me
nahi aata.
Jab ladki ziyada majbur karti he to ladka
keh deta he k meri ammi nahi manti,
kayu karu mere abbu nahi mante.
Is
tarah waqt guzar deta he. Ladki ko
musibat me dal deta he. Wo na idhar ki
rehti he na udhar ki, Aise mod par
pahunch kar kuch ladkiyaa khud kushi
kar leti hain,
kuch din raat wazife karti
hain k ladka apni maa ko bhej dewe,
kuch ladkiyaa mannate manti hain
ya
tawiz dhage k piche lag jati hain. Kuch
apni galati ko manne k bajae namaz
padhna chhod deti hain k Allah ta’aala
meri duwa kabul hi nahi karte. Galati
aapni hoti he. Ladka us ladki se shahwat
puri kar chuka hota he, ab wo ladki uski
nazar me istimal kiye huwe toilet paper
ki tarah hoti he, is wajah se wo ladki ko
talta rehta he or milna band kar deta he.
Aakhir me itna kahunga k jo ladkiyaa
apni izzat ki kadar o kimat janti hain
wo
lakho pareshaniyo k hote huwe bhi gair
mahram ki taraf baal barabar bhi
mutawajjeh nahi hoti, naa hi unko karib
aane ka mauka deti hain. Aisi aurto
(ladkiyo) ko allah ta’aala apne karib kar
lete hain or apni marifat ka nur ataa
farmate hain.
GHAR KE BAHAR CHEHRE KA PARDA
Aye Nabi! Apni biwiyon, betiyon aur
momino ki aurato se kehdo ke jab wo
bahar nikla karein, toh apne cheharo par
apni chadarein latkaa kar (ghoongat)
liya karein, ye amal inke liye moujjib-e-
shina qt aur (imtiyaz) hoga, toh inko koyi
izaa na dega.
Surah Ahzaab:59
Ye ayat ghar se bahar parde ke mutaluq
hai ke ghar se bahar jaana ho toh jisam
ke saath saath chehare ko bhi chupaa
kar niklein,
is ayat ke mutaluq Qayamat
ke din Allah Taala sawaal karega.
Log
be-bunyad baat kehte hai ke chehara
aur haato ka parda nahi hai, Quran ki is
ayat se wazeh ho raha hai ke chehare ka
parda wajib hai.
Hazrat Asma(radiallahu anha) kehti ke hum ghair-mardo se
apna chehara chupaya karti thi
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