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Aurat Shadi Ke Baad

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Aurat Shadi Ke Baad



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Asslam o Alaikum Aurat Shadi Ke Baad Aurat ki Zimme'daariya'n bharr jaati hain. Yeh Doar Aurat ki Zindagi Ke Char Doar mein se Bohat hi ehm doar hai kiun k yehi woh waqt hota jab Aurat ko neya Ghar 1 neya jahaan basana hota hai bohat sabar se yeh Rasta teh karna hota hai. Islam ne Aurat ko uss ki tamam tar zindagi kaise guzarni hai iss ke baarey mein Quran o Hadees mein baarha Hukam diya gaya hai. 

NIKAH : Jab Ladki Baaligh ho jaye tou Maa, Baap par laazim Hai ke jald se jald Munasib Rishta talash kar ke uss ki Shadi kar dein. Rishtey ki talash mein khaas taur se iss Baat ka dhayan rakhna behad zaruri hai ke hargiz Hargiz kisi bad-Mazhab ke sath Rishta na hone paye bal ke Deen-daar aur Naik Insan ko Rishtedari ke liye Muntakhab kare. 

Bukhari wa Muslim ki Hadees mein hai ke " Rasool Allah Salallaho Taala alaihi wassalam Ne Farmaya " Ke Aurat se Shadi karne mein Char Cheezein dekhi jaati hain... 
1). Doulat Mand 
2). Khandani Sharafat 
3). Khub surti 
4). Dindari 
Lekin Tum Deen-dari ko in sab Cheezo'n par Mukdam Samjho. 

" Aulad ki tammana aur apni zaat ko badkari se bachane ki niyyat ke liye Nikkah karna Sunnat Hai " Aur Bohat Barrey Ajr o Sawab ka kaam hai ALLAH taala ne Quran Sharif mein farmaya ke 

YANI TUM LOG BE SHOHAR WALi AURATO'N KA NIKAH KAR DO AUR APNE NEIK CHALAN GHULAMO AUR LONDIYO KA BHI NIKAH KAR DO 
  (Surah Al-Noor) 

Hadees Sharif mein hai ke Tourat Sharif mein likha hai ke : 

Jis Shakhs ki Ladki barah Baras ki Umar ko Pohanch gai aur uss ne uss Ladki ka Nikah nahi kiya aur woh Ladki badkari ke Gunah mein parr gai tou is ka Gunah Ladki Wale ke sar par bhi Hoga.. 

Dusri Hadees mein hai ke " Huzoor Salallaho Taala Alaihi Wasalam ne Farmaya ki "  

ALLAH taala ne Teen AShkhaas ki imdaad apne zimmey Karam Par li hai 
1). Woh Gulam Jo Apne Aaka se Aazad Hone Ke Liya Kisi Kadr Rakam Ada Karne Ka Ahed Kare Aur Apne Ahed Ko Pura Karne Ki Niyyat Rakhta Ho. 
2). khuda ki Rah Me Jihad Karne Wala. 
3). Woh Nikah Karne Wala Ya Nikah Karne wali Jo Nikah Ke zariye Haram Kari Se Bachna chahte ho. 

Aurat jab tak uss ki Shadi nahi hoti hai woh apne Maa, Baap ki Beti kehlati hai magar Shadi ho jaane ke baad Aurat apne Shohar ki Biwi ban jaati hai aur ab Uss ke Faraiz aur Uss ki Zimme-dariya'n pehle se bohat zyada barrh jati hain woh tamam Hukook wa Faraiz jo Aurat Baaligh Hone Ke Baad Aurat par laazim ho gaye they ab inn ke ilawa Shohar ke hukook ka bhi bohat Barra bojh Aurat ke sar par aa jaata hai jis ka adaa karna har Aurat ke liye bohat hi barra fariza hai... 

Yaad Rakho ke Shohar ke Hukook ko agar Aurat Ada nahi karegi tou Uss ki Duniyawi zindagi Tabah o barbaad ho jayegi aur aakhirat mein woh Dozakh ki bhadakti Hui Aag mein jalti rahegi aur uss ki Qabar mein saanp Bichu uss ko Dasste Rahein gey aur dono jahaa'n mein zaleel o Khuwar aur tarah tarah ke azabo'n mein Giraftaar Rahegi...

Mazeed Rehnumai ke liye aap Hamari Post Shohar Aur Biwi Ke Huqooq bhi zaroor parhein.

iss liye Shariat ke Hukam ke mutabik har Aurat par Farz hai ke woh apne Shohar ke Hukook ko ada karti rahe aur Umar Bhar apne Shohar ki Farma Bardaari wa Khidmat Guzaari karti rahe. 

Shohar ke Hukook :

ALLAH taala ne Shoharo'n ko Biwiyo'n par Haakim banaya hai aur bohat barri Buzurgi di hai iss liye har Aurat par Farz hai ke woh apne Shohar ka Hukam maaney aur Khushi Khushi apne Shohar ke har Hukam ki Taab-e-daari kare kyun ke  ALLAH taala ne Shohar ka bohat barra haq banaya hai.

Yaad Rakho ke Apne Shohar ko Raazi Wa Khush rakhna bohat badi ibadat hai aur Shohar ko Na-Khush aur Naraz rakhna bohat bada Gunah hai. 

Rasool Allah Salallho taala alaihi wassalam ne Farmaya Ke “Agar mein Khuda ke siwa kisi dusre ke liye sajda karne ka Hukam deta to mein Aurato'n ko Hukam deta ke woh apne Shoharo'n ko Sajda Kiya karein.

Iss mazmoon ko apne tamam Aziz o aqarab aur apne Social media sites k Profiles par share karna na bhoolein. jazakALLAH

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