Sohbat Karne Ka Islamic Tarika
Hazrat Ibne Abbas Radiallaho Anhu Se Riwayat He Ke
Huzoor Sallalaho Alayhi Wasallam Ne Irshad Farmaya,
Gawaho Ke Bagair Nikah Karnewali Aurate Zaaniya ( Zina Karnewali ) Hain.
[ Tirmizi Sharif, Jild : 1, Safa :
563, Hadees No. 1095, Baab No. 751 ]
Gausey Aazam Shaikh Abdul Qadir Jilani Radiallahu Anhu Farmate Hai, Nikah Jumerat
( Thursday ) Ya Jumma ( Friday ) Ko Karna Must'hab He Aur Subah Ki Bajaye Sham Ke Waqt Nikah Behtar
Karna Hain.
[ Gunyatuttalebin, Baab No. 5, Safa : 115 ]
Jis Kisi ne Sohbat Ki Bate Logo Me Bayan Ki Uski Misal Aisi He Jaise Shaitan Aurat Shaitan Mard Se Mile Aur Logo Ke Samne Hi Khule Aam Sohbat Karne Lage.
[ Abu Dawood, Jild : 2, Hadees No. 407, Safa : 155,baab No. 127)
Aaqa Sallalaho Alayhi Wasallam Ne Irshad Farmaya, Allah Ki Laanat Bad Nigahi Karnewale Par Aur Jiski
Taraf Bad Nigahi Ki Jaye.
[ Bayhaqi Sharif, Mishkat Sharif, Jild : 2, Safa : 77 ]
Huzoor Sallalahu Alayhi Wasallam ne irshad farmaya...
"Tum me se jo koi apni Biwi ke pas jaye to Parda kar le aur Gadhe ki tarah na shuru ho jaye"
(Ibne Maja, Jild 1, Safa 538, Hadees no 1990, Bab no 616)
Ummulmomenin Hazrat Aayesha Siddiqa Radiallahu Anha se Riwayat he ki Huzoor Sallalahu Alayhi Wasallam ne irshad farmaya...
"Jo Mard apni biwi ka hath usko behlane ke liye pakadta he, Allah ta'ala uske liye 1 neki likh deta he,
Jab mard pyar se Aurat ke gale me hath dalta he uske haq me 10 nekiya likhi jati he,
Aur jab Aurat se Sohbat karta he to Duniya aur jo kuch usme he un subse behtar ho jata he"
(Gunyatuttalebin Safa 113)
Sohbat se pehle khud bechain na ho jaye apne aap par pura itminan rakhe jaldbaji na kare pehle biwi se Pyar Muhabbat ki batchit kare fir bos wa kinar (Kiss) wagaira se usko razi kare aur isi duran dil hi dil me ye dua padhe:
"Bismillahil Aliyul Azime Allaho Akbar Allaho Akbar"
Tarjuma: "Allah ke nam se Jo bujurg wa Bartar ajmatwala he. Allah bahut bada he. Allah bahut bada he.
iske bad jab mard,Aurat, Sohbat ka irada kar le to kapade jism se alag karne se pehle ek martaba "Surah ikhlas" Padhe
Surah Ikhlas:
"Kul huwallaho Ahad. Allahussamad. Lam-ya-lid. Walam yoolad walam ya kullahu kufuwan ahad."
Surah ikhlas padhne ke bad ye dua padhey.
Sohbat Karne Ki DUA
"Bismillahi Allahumma jannib nash shaitana wa janne bish shaitana ma rajak tana."
Tarjuma: "Allah ke nam se. Ae Allah door kar humse shaitan mardud ko aur door kar shaitan mardud ko us Aulad se jo tu hume ata karega"
(Bukhari sharif, Jild 3, Safa 473)
Hazrat ibne Abbas Radiallahu Anhu se Riwayat he ke Huzoor Sallalaho Alayhi Wasallam ne irshad farmaya...
"Jo shaks is dua ko Sohbat ke waqt padhega (Dua wahi jo upar likhi he) to Allah us padhnewale ko agar Aulad ata farmaye to us Aulad ko Shaitan kabhi bhi nuksan na pahuncha sakega"
(Bukhari sharif Jild 3,Safa 85, Tirmizi sharif, Jild 1, Safa 557)
Shaikh Abdul Qadir Jilani wa Hazrat Muhkkike islam shaikh Abdul haq mohoddas dahalwi aur Aala hazrat imam Ahmad Raza Khan irshad farmate he
"Agar koi shakhs sohbat ke waqt dua na padhe to us shaks ki sharmgah se shaitan lipat jata he aur us mard ke sath shaitan bhi us Aurat se sohbat karne lagta he. Aur jo aulad paida hoti he woh na farman,buri aadatwali,Begairat,Bad-deen hoti he. Shaitan ki is dakhl andaji ki wajahse Aulad me Tabahkari aa jati he"
(Gunyatuttalebin Safa 116, Fatwa-E-Razviya, Jild 9, Safa 48)
Inzal (Mani nikalte waqt) ki Dua :
Jis waqt inzal ho yani mard ki Mani uske Uzoo-E-Tanasul se nikal kar Aurat ki Sharmgah me dakhil hone lage us waqt dil hi dilme ye dua padhe:
"Allahumma-La-Taja'al Lish Shaitane Fi-M-Razkatni Nasi-ba"
Tarjuma: "Aye Allah shaitan ke liye hissa na bana usme Jo(Aulad) tu hume ata kare"
(Hisne Hasin Safa 165, Fatwa-E-Razviya Jild 9, Safa 161)
Iss Post ko apne tamam Dosto'n aur Nojawano'n ke sath share karein. ALLAH hamein islam ko samajhne aur iss par amal karne ki toufeeq aata farmaye. Aameen.
