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Saturday, 20 December 2014

Apne Bachchon ke achchhe Islami Naam rakho

Apne Bachchon ke achchhe Islamic Naam Rakho


Apne Bachchon ke achchhe
Naam
rakho…
.
.
1.Madani Aaqa Sallalahu
Alaihi
Wasallam ne irshad
farmaya,
Allah ta’ala ne mujhse
farmaya,
Mujhe apne izzat wa Jalaal ki
kasam
jiska naam tumhare naam par
hoga,
usey dojakh ka azaab na
dunga.
.
(Ahkame Shariat Jild 1,Safa 81)
.
.
2.Madani Aaqa Sallalahu
Alaihi
Wasallam ne irsad
farmaya,
Jiske 3 Bete paida ho aur
wo unme
se kisika naam Mohammad
na
rakhe to zarur “Jahil” hai.
.
(Tibrani sharif,Ahkame
shariat,Jild
1,Safa 83)


3.Madani Aaqa Sallalahu
Alaihi
Wasallam ne irshad
farmaya,
Beshaq! Tum roze Qayamat
apne
namo aur apne Bapo ke
Namo se
pukare jaoge tuo apne naam
ache
rakha karo.
.
(imam Ahmed,Abu
Dawood,Jild
3,Bab 485,Hadees 1513,Safa
550)
.
.
4.Madani Aaqa Sallalahu
Alaihi
Wasallam ki Aadate
kareema thi ki
aap bure naam badal diya
karte the.
.
(Tirmizi sharif Jild 2,Bab
335,Hadees 746,Safa
301,Abu
Dawood,Jild 3,Bab
486,Hadees
1517,Safa 551)
.
.
5.Hazrat Abdullah ibne umar
radiallaho anho se riwayat
hai ki,
Madani Aaqa Sallalahu
Alaihi
Wasallam ne irsad
farmaya,
Allah ta’ala ko tamam namo
mein se
Abdullah aur Abdur rahman
subse
jyada pasand hai.
.
(Abu Dawood,Jild 3,Bab
485,Hadees 1513,Safa 550)

.
Allah hamen islami
Masail ko sikhne aur samajhne
Ki toufiq ataa farmaye
*Aameen*


.
Baraye Karam Is Paigham Ko Dusro ko Share kijiye
ALLAH Apko iska Ajar-e-Azeem Zaroor dega AAMEEN

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Wednesday, 17 December 2014

Wazifa Dua for Pregnancy Hamal

Wazifa Dua for Pregnancy Hamal


jis aurat ko Hamal na Rehta ho 7 Din tak Nihaar Munh Rotti ke Tukrey par yeh Ayat Likh kar khaye. in'sha'ALLAH Hamal Thehar jaye ga.

Wazifa Dua for Pregnancy Hamal
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Umme Subyan kia hai ? what is Umme Subyan ?

Umme Subyan kia hai ? what is Umme Subyan ?

Umme Subyan kia hai ? what is Umme Subyan ?
Um assubyan
ام الصبيان
kiya hai?
Um assubyan bacho ka mash’hoor maraz hai. Jissay
جده، شهاقته، الحره، ام الليل، الحنفه
ke namo se bhi jana jata hai. Baz ulama aur hukama ke nazdeek iske 7 naam hain aur baaz ke nazdeek 10 aur baz ke nazdeek 12 naam hain. Asal me ye aik boht taqatwar aur khofnak shakal wa surat wali jinn aurat hai. Yeh aik khatarnak jinn aurat hai ke jisper iski nazar karam hojati hai woh tabah wa barbad hojata hai.
Hazrat Sulaiman a.s ne jub isko giraftar kar ke apne darbar me Hazir kiya to isne bataya meri nazar se he dunya me qabrain murdo se bharti jati hain , meri he nazar se log beemar hojate hain. . . . .chote bare mere asar se sookh kar mar jate hain. . . .meri nazar se aurato ki godain khali hojati hain.
Agar kisi doodh bache ko aap dekhian k ussay qay ulti aur dust atay hain. Aankhien andar ko dhans gayi hain taangain bilkul patli aur pait barh gaya ho. Bache ke jism ka rung kabhi laal kabhi peela aur kabhi neela hojata hai to samajh jaayien usko yahi beemari hai. Roohani aur jismani dono ilaj karwain.
Allah swt iske shar se dunya ke tamam logo ko bachaye aur apne hifz wa aman me rakhe! Ameen.
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The Sunnah of the Market

The Sunnah of the Market

 

The Sunnah of the Market
About The Sunnah of the Market The Messenger of Allaah – sallallaahu alyhi wasallam – said; “Whoever enters a market place and says

مَنْ قَالَ حِينَ يَدْخُلُ السُّوقَ لاَ إِلَهَ إِلاَّ اللَّهُ وَحْدَهُ لاَ شَرِيكَ لَهُ لَهُ الْمُلْكُ وَلَهُ الْحَمْدُ يُحْيِي وَيُمِيتُ وَهُوَ حَىٌّ لاَ يَمُوتُ بِيَدِهِ الْخَيْرُ كُلُّهُ وَهُوَ عَلَى كُلِّ شَىْءٍ قَدِيرٌ - كَتَبَ اللَّهُ لَهُ أَلْف...َ أَلْفِ حَسَنَةٍ وَمَحَا عَنْهُ أَلْفَ أَلْفِ سَيِّئَةٍ وَبَنَى لَهُ بَيْتًا فِي الْجَنَّةِ

‘Laa ilaaha illallaahu wahdahu laa shareeka lah, lahul mulku wa lahul hamdu yuhyee wa yumeetu wahuwa hayyun laa yamootu, biyadihi alkhayru wahuwa ala kulli shayyin qadeer’(There is none worthy of worship in truth except Allah alone, He has no partners, He has the dominion and for him is all the praise, He gives life and he takes life and he is the ever living and does not die, in his hand is goodness and he is capable of all things)

Allaah will write for him thousand thousand reward and erase from him thousand thousand sin and raise him thousand thousand and build for him a house in Jannah!”

[ Recorded in Sunan al-Nasa'ee (Eng ref: Vol. 3, Book 12, Hadith 2235) and Jami` at-Tirmidhi (3428); al-Jaami' as-Sagheer (v. 1 p. 1118) Shaikh al-Albaanee said the hadeeth is Hasan , Also classified as Hassan in Takhreej Mishkat al Masaabeh (2366) , Saheeh al Jaami' (6231) and Also recorded in Ibn Taymiyyah's book called " Gaining rewards" pg. 20]

Yaa SubhaanAllaah! Just by saying this one dhikr upon entering such a place you gain so much reward and get rid of so much sin! How merciful is Allaah!
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TWENTY THINGS THAT PARENTS SHOULD TEACH THEIR CHILD

TWENTY THINGS THAT PARENTS SHOULD TEACH THEIR CHILD

 

TWENTY THINGS THAT PARENTS SHOULD TEACH THEIR CHILD
1. Play a sport.
 It will teach you how to win honorably, lose gracefully, respect authority, work with others, manage your time and stay out of trouble. And maybe even throw or catch.

2. It is better to be kind than to be right.

3. Save money when you're young because you're going to need it someday.

4. Allow me to introduce you to the dishwasher, oven, washing machine, iron, vacuum, mop and broom. Now please go use them.

5. Pray and be a spiritual leader.

6. Don't ever be a bully and don't ever start a fight, but if some idiot clocks you, please defend yourself.

7. Use careful aim when you pee. Somebody's got to clean that up, you know.

8. Your knowledge and education is something that nobody can take away from you.

9. Treat your partner kindly. Forever is a long time to live alone and it's even longer to live with somebody who hates your guts.

10. Take pride in your appearance.

11. Be strong and tender at the same time.

12. A woman can do everything that you can do. This includes her having a successful career and you changing diapers at 3 A.M. Mutual respect is the key to a good relationship.

13. “Yes ma'am” and “Yes sir” still go a long way.

14. The reason that they're called “private parts” is because they're “private”. Please do not scratch them in public.

15. Peer pressure is a scary thing. Be a good leader and others will follow.

16. Bringing her flowers for no reason is always a good idea.

17. You will set the tone for the sexual relationship, so don't take something away from her that you can't give back.

18. A sense of humor goes a long way in the healing process.

19. Please choose your spouse wisely. My daughter-in-law will be the gatekeeper for me spending time with you and my grandchildren.

20. Remember to call your mother and father because I might be missing you.

 

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Symptoms of Pregnancy and Things NOT to Eat When Pregnant

Symptoms of Pregnancy and Things NOT to Eat When Pregnant

 

Symptoms of Pregnancy and Things NOT to Eat When Pregnant

Symptoms of Pregnancy - Early signs / classic clues of pregnancy



  1. Tender, swollen breasts: breast may feel heavier or fuller or feel tender to the touch. The area around the nipples, called the areola, may also darken.
  2. Weird abdominal pain: This is likely due to implantation, it felt different than menstrual cramps, almost like really bad gas.
  3. Fatigue and tiredness: You will feel tired all of a sudden even though you got plenty of sleep.
  4. Faintness and dizziness: Early in pregnancy, faintness also may be triggered by low blood sugar.
  5. Nausea with or without vomiting: Morning sickness, which can strike at any time of the day or night, is one of the classic symptoms of pregnancy.
  6. Mood swings: In early pregnancy can make you unusually emotional and weepy. Mood swings also are common, especially in the first trimester.
  7. Food aversions or cravings: Food cravings are common too, i.e. coffee or fried foods.
  8. Increased Urination: You might find yourself urinating more often than usual, especially at night.
  9. Headaches: Due to increased blood circulation caused by hormonal changes may trigger frequent, mild headaches.
  10. Constipation: Constipation is another common early symptom of pregnancy.
  11. Vaginal discharge: This happens to a lot of women during their menstrual cycles, but a white, milky discharge could be a result of your vagina's walls thickening due to conception.
  12. Slight bleeding or cramping: Sometimes a small amount of spotting or vaginal bleeding is one of the first symptoms of pregnancy.
  13. Raised basal body temperature: Your basal body temperature is your oral temperature when you first wake up in the morning.
  14. Missed Period: This is a possible sign of pregnancy.


What NOT to eat When Pregnant:



  1. Unwashed Fruits/Veggies
  2. Self-service salad bars or packages salads, such as coleslaw and pasta salad.
  3. Soft-serve ice-cream and thick-shakes
  4. any foods or drinks that contain raw egg.
  5. Smoked Seafood
  6. Unpasteurized Milk: boil milk before use.
  7. Soft Cheese: such as brie, camembert, fetta, cottage and ricotta.
  8. Skip Under-cooked Meat:
  9. Raw Cookie Dough:
  10. Fresh Pre-Stuffed Poultry:
  11. Raw Sprouts: All types of sprouts, such as alfalfa sprouts, broccoli sprouts, onion sprouts, sunflower sprouts, radish sprouts, snowpea sprouts, mungbeans and soybeans (raw or cooked) are also best avoided.
    check sandwiches to make sure they don’t contain raw sprouts. At home, cook sprouts thoroughly to destroy any bacteria.
  12. Mercury in fish: Fish is a great food for pregnancy and breastfeeding mothers but be careful which fish you choose. While some fish contain Omega 3 fatty acid - important for the development of the central nervous system in babies, before and after they are born - other fish may contain mercury levels that can affect the development of your baby's nervous system, leading to delayed speech and movement.
    Women who are already pregnant, or planning to become pregnant within the next six months, should avoid fish with high levels of mercury, such as shark, swordfish, orange roughy, gemfish, ling, southern bluefin tuna and barramundi. 
  13. Liver. Although liver is a rich source of iron, it also contains high levels of vitamin A - something which, in excess, can be harmful to a developing baby. Liver should only be consumed in small amounts during pregnancy (a maximum of 50g per week).
  14. Wash hands thoroughly with warm, soapy water, then dry them, before and after handling food.
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Home Remedies for Acne, Arthritis, Backache, Cold, Constipation, Obesity

Home Remedies for Acne, Arthritis, Backache, Cold, Constipation, Obesity

 

Home Remedies for Acne, Arthritis, Backache, Cold, Constipation, Obesity
Home remedies for some of the most common diseases and problems are:

Home Remedies for Acne

Application of cucumber leaves or grated pieces of cucumber to the affected areas.

Paste of fenugreek leaves applied overnight on the affected area and washed off next morning is also effective.

Mix one tablespoon of besan flour and one teaspoon of lemon juice till a smooth paste is formed. Apply on neck and face and wash off when it gets dry.

Home Remedies for Acidity

Drink a glass of cold milk to get quick relief from acidity.

Drink a glass of water with a teaspoon of baking soda for immediate relief.

Chewing bubble gum will also provide relief from acidity in few minutes.

Home Remedies for Arthritis

With an empty stomach take 3-4 walnuts (akhrot) or 1 fresh coconut.

Spread warm mustard oil on a madar leaf and apply to the affected area for a few hours .

Drink some radish juice with sugar added to it.

Home Remedies for Asthma

Drink a cup of black coffee, the warmth will break up the flem and the caffeine will help to remove tightness from the chest and throat.

Add 30-40 leaves of tulsi in one liter of water, strain the leaves and drink the water throughout the day.

Home Remedies for Anaemia

Eat 2-3 apples daily without peeling to increase the iron stores in the body.

Intake of beet juice is highly beneficial for the anemic person's.

Home Remedies for Backache

Drink some hot milk or water with powdered sonth, meetha soda, and salt.

Massage the back with turpentine oil.

For temporary and quick relief heat can be applied at the back with hot water bottle.

Home Remedies for Common cold

Drink a cup of water with a few drops of garlic oil and a teaspoonful of onion juice.

Rub the chest and throat with camphor water or oil.

Drink honey and lemon juice in hot water to get relief from sore throat.

Home Remedies for Constipation

Drink a tablespoon of corn syrup in a cup of water.

Drink a glass of prune juice to facilitate bowel movement.

Drinking a cup of coffee will also provide relief from constipation.

Home Remedies for Eczema

Mix one teaspoon of camphor and one teaspoon of sandalwood to form a paste and apply on the affected e areas.

Drinking Aloe Vera juice will help cleanse the system.

Home Remedies for Hair loss

Wash hair with peppermint or spearmint tea to prevent hair loss and to promote hair growth .

Wash hair with white vinegar periodically to prevent falling of hair.

Home Remedies for High blood pressure

Mix half onion juice and half honey. Take 2 tablespoons once a day for 1-2 weeks.

Eat two cloves of garlic every early morning.

Eat one Papaya on an empty stomach daily for a month.

Home Remedies for High blood cholesterol

Drinking onion juice daily for a week will lower the blood cholesterol.

Eat a few garlic cloves every day to reduce blood cholesterol.

Home Remedies for Indigestion

Drink aloe vera juice, papaya juice, or chamomile, comfrey, red raspberry, or peppermint tea.

Drinking a glass of water with a tablespoon of baking soda will provide immediate relief.

Home Remedies for Obesity

Eat 10 fresh curry leaves in the early morning for three or four months.

Drink a cup of water with 3 teaspoons limejuice, one-fourth teaspoon powdered black pepper, and a teaspoon of honey every day for three months.

Eat freshly sliced tomatoes with onion and lemon juice.

Drink lemon juice with honey and warm water every morning.

Home Remedies for Sore throat

Gargle every hour with vinegar water or salt water.

Drink hot milk with honey at bedtime for immediate relief from sore throat.

A teaspoon of honey will provide relief from sore throat.

Home Remedies for Stress

Chewing 12 tulsi leaves twice a day, morning and evening is the highly beneficial treatment of stress.

Various seeds such as alfalfa, sunflower and pumpkin are highly beneficial in the treatment of stress.

The use of these home remedies is highly effective and causes no side effects on one's physical body.
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Hirz Abu Dajanah (may Allah be pleased with him) to be save from Jinnat

Hirz Abu Dajanah (may Allah be pleased with him) to be save from Jinnat

 

Hirz Abu Dajanah (may Allah be pleased with him) to be save from Jinnat
Hayat al Hayawn me dala’il al nabuwat imam Behqi se manqool hai ke Huzoor s.a.w.s ke mash’hoor sahabi Hazrat Abu Dajanah r.a aik roz Huzoor s.a.w.s se arz karne lage ke Ya Rasool Allah raat ko mere makan me chaki chalne ki awaz aayi. Phir yak bayak mutawatar bijli chamakti nazar aayi. Jub ghor se dekha to aik kali ghata si makan ke sehan me maloom huwi. Us kali ghata me se angare meri taraf uray huwe aaye. Huzoor Akram s.a.w.s ne ye sun kar farmaya ke tere ghar me jinn hai. Phir aap ne qalam dawat aur kaghaz mangwa kar janab Ali Karam Allahu wajha’hu ko diya aur farmaya likho!
بسم الله الرحمن الرحيم- هذا كتاب من محمد رسول الله رب العلمين الى من طرق الدار من العمار و الزوار و السائحين الا طارقا يطرق بخير يا رحمن اما بعد فان لنا و لكم في الحق سعة فان تك عاشقا مولعا او فاجرا مقتحما او داعيا حقا باطلا مبطلا هذا كتاب الله ينطق علينا و عليكم بحق انا كنا نستنسخ ما كنتم تعملون اتركوا صاحب كتابي هذا وانطلقوا الى عبدة الاوثان والاصنام والى من يزعم ان مع الله الها اخر لا اله الا هو كل شي هالك الا وجهه له الحكم واليه ترجعون- تقلبون حم لا تنصرون حمعسق تفرق اعداء الله و بلغت حجة الله ولا حول ولا قوة الا بالله العلي العظيم- فسيكفيكهم الله و هو السميع العليم.
 
Hazarat Abu Dajanah r.a farmate hain ke me is nama e mubarak ko le aya. Aur do0sri raat apne sarhane rakh kar sogaya. Farmate the ke mere ghar se cheekho ki awaz aati thi. . . .Abu Dajanah r.a farmate hain fajar ki namaz me, me ne Huzoor s.a.w.s se raat cheekh o pukar ka zikar kiya. Aap s.a.w.s ne farmaya ke ab wo jinn qayamat tak jalta rahega!
Huzoor s.a.w.s ka ye nama mubarak ya khat sare jahan ke jinnat ke naam likha huwa hai. Jiske ghar me jinn bho0t aasaib ka khalal ho to iss nama mubarak ko likh kar makan me oonchi jagah latka do. Jis shaks per jin ata ho ye nama mubarak likh kar usko dikhana aur gale me latkana bohat mufeed hai. Iss amal ki taseer bayan karne ki zarurat nahi samajhta. . .jese madinat ul ilm ne likhwaya. . . .aur bab e ilm ne likha. . .humari zabane kharab hain.

English:

If there are jinnat in your home, write this arabic ayah and put it in the house at a top place, or if there are Jinns on some one show this aya to him and let him/her wear it in his/her neck.
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Bachay ki Paidaish Main Asani ka Wazifa

Bachay ki Paidaish Main Asani ka Wazifa

 

pregnancy tips
Ager bachey ki paidaish men problem ho aur labour pian zada ho aur bacha paida na ho raha ho
Tu Surah Yasin ki ayet number 37 aur 38 ko wadu ki halat men likh ker pak saf kaprey ne lapte ker woman ki right thigh per bandh den,

Bacha foran paida hojaye ga,

Warning: bacha paida hotey hi taweez khol ker alg ker len, werna intestines bhi baher ajain gi,

Taweez khol ker kisi jaga daba den, kisi asi jaga jahan kisi ka poun na parey ya phir pather sey bandh ker pani man dal den,

Jalana nahi hai

 

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6 Ways to Help the Angry Child

6 Ways to Help the Angry Child

 
6 Ways to Help the Angry Child

While no person or no family can be anger-proof there are ways you can help your child get a handle on anger.

1. Help your child have inner peace
 Research has shown, and our experience supports the observation, that connected children and their parents get angry with each other less. The connected child, growing up with a sense of well- being, has peaceful modeling. He will get angry, but he learns to handle the anger in such a way that it does not take over his personality. Connected parents know their children well, so they are less likely to create situations that provoke them and their children to anger. Attached parents know they don't have to be harsh to be in control.

The unconnected child operates from inner turmoil. Down deep this child feels something important is missing in his self and he is angry about it. (This feeling may continue into adulthood.) This void is likely to reveal itself as anger toward himself and parents, placing everyone at risk for becoming an angry family.

2. Don't let your child stuff anger
 Encourage your child to recognize when he is angry, starting with the toddler. Be an attentive listener, helping your child work through feelings. Given a willing audience that shows empathy rather than judgment, children will often talk themselves out of their snits. Our eight-year-old, Matthew, insisted on watching a certain TV program. I disagreed, and he became angry. Matt felt that he absolutely had to watch the program. I felt that the program content was harmful to his growing self and to family harmony. I listened attentively and nonjudgmentally while Matt pleaded his case. After he had made his appeal, I made mine. With calm authority, I made my own points, while conveying to Matt that I understood but did not agree with his viewpoint. I asked him probing questions, such as: "What about the program is so important to you?" "Could you think of an activity that is more fun than watching this program?" "Matt, do you understand why I don't want you to watch it?" "Are you just bored? If so, I have an idea..." Gradually Matt realized that this program was not worth getting so worked up about. As the dialogue continued, his eyes dried and his reddened face relaxed. I'm sure his pulse rate was coming down, too. We ended this encounter with a chuckle about how he had let such a stupid program upset him. We went out and played catch instead.

 3. Look beneath the "bad" kid
 The habitually misbehaving child is usually an angry child. If your child seems "bad" all the time or you "don't know what else to do" or your child seems withdrawn, search beneath the surface for something that is angering your child. In counseling parents of these children, I have found two causes: Either there is a lot of family anger – mother and/or father is on edge all the time and the child incorporates these feelings as part of himself; or the child feels angry because his sense of well- being is threatened. Helping children who misbehave repeatedly or seem "bad" more than "good" usually begins with a total family overhaul. Take inventory of the influences in your child's life. What builds up his self-esteem? What tears it down? What needs are not being met? What inner anxiety is at the root of the anger? Anger is only the tip of the iceberg, and it warns of needs to be dealt with beneath the surface.

Inner anger often causes a child to withdraw. In a struggle to ward off attacks on a shaky self-image, this child puts on a protective shell. On the surface he may seem calm, but underneath a tight lid is a pressure cooker of emotions needing to be channeled or recognized. To keep the lid on, the child withdraws, avoiding interaction that might set him off. This is why we advise getting behind the eyes and into the mind of your child – things may look different from that perspective.

It's devastating for a child to feel that she is a "bad kid." Unless that feeling is reversed, the child grows up acting the part. To get the "bad" feeling out of your child, intervene with a reassuring "You're not bad, you're just young, and young people sometimes do foolish things. But Daddy is going to help you stop doing them so you will grow up feeling like you are the nice person I know you are." This sends a message to your child that you care enough to find the good child beneath the bad behavior.

4. Laughter – the best medicine for anger
 Humor diffuses anger and keeps trivial upsets from escalating. Our kids love spaghetti – the messier the sauce, the more they love it. Once at dinner we left the older kids in charge of the two- and five-year-old, who were dawdling over their messy meal. As often happens in large families, the oldest child delegated responsibility to the next oldest and so on down the line: "You watch the kids…" Lauren and Stephen were ultimately left unsupervised, and a spaghetti frenzy ensued. When we discovered the stringy mess we scolded the older kids for allowing it to happen. While we yelled at them, they yelled at each other. Lauren and Stephen peered up at their angry elders, sauce covering their cheeks and foreheads and spaghetti in their hair. We all began to laugh, and worked together, in good spirits, to clean up the kids and the mess. Now when we delegate authority, we're more careful to be sure the appropriate-aged child really is on duty.

 5. Model appropriate expressions of anger
 Anger that is expressed inappropriately blocks your ability to discipline wisely. For example, your four-year-old does something stupid. She covers the dog with spaghetti sauce, and the dog bounds off into the living room leaving orange-red paw prints on the white carpeting. This is not the time to blow your top. The more aggravating the deed, the more you need a clear head to evaluate your options in handling the misbehavior. Each situation is different, and you must be able to think straight to choose the reaction that best fits the action. Being in a state of rage clouds your thinking. Your unthinking expressions of anger cause the situation to escalate. You hit the dog (which causes him to run through more rooms leaving more sauce behind); you spank the child and send him to his room (which leaves you, still seething, to clean up the mess alone). By the time the episode is over everyone feels abused. An approach less draining on everyone requires a level head and a dose of humor: quickly grab the dog and head for the bath tub, calling for your child to come along (in the most cheerful voice possible) to help de-sauce the dog and then the rug. Your child learns how you handle a crisis and how much work it is to clean up a mess. A temper tantrum from you can't undo the childish mess, it can only add to it.

Anger puts a barrier between parents and child. Our children taught us this lesson. We saw a distance developing between us and our seventeen-year-old, Peter. We weren't communicating comfortably with each other. Our then fourteen- year-old daughter said, "He stays in his room to escape the yelling. He's afraid you'll get angry and yell." We hadn't thought of ourselves as an angry, yelling family, but Peter felt we were and so he recoiled from family interaction to preserve his peaceful self. This quote from Hayden explains in a nutshell why anger creates distance, especially in a child like Peter, who has a laid-back temperament. Hayden's openness prompted us to reevaluate our show of emotions. We called a family meeting, acknowledged that yelling seemed to be a problem we needed to deal with, apologized for this failing, and discussed how that would change.

Also, we wanted our children to feel comfortable approaching us, no matter what they had done or how they felt. So we promised to eliminate the fear factor: "Here's the deal. Your mom and I promise not to yell at you as long as you talk to us. We will listen calmly to anything you tell us. We will not yell." This did not happen overnight, and we still "blow it" from time to time. When this happens, we apologize and move on. Displays of anger scare children and put them on the defensive. They will either retreat into a protective shell or grow to have an angry personality themselves. Once we removed the barrier of fear, Peter came out of his room. And we continue to work on our communication. We've learned to calmly say, "I get angry when you..." Children and spouses need to know what makes you angry. They don't need to have your anger spewed all over them.

Small children are devastated by the sight of big, scary, out-of-control daddy or raging mommy. They fear that the parent will stop loving them, hurt them, or leave. You don't want your child to have to squelch the flow of his normal feelings because he's frightened of what he might set off in you. Adults should be responsible for controlling themselves. The child should not be put in a position where he starts to feel responsible for controlling your rage. This sets up very dysfunctional patterns as your child grows. If your anger is out of control and scaring your child, seek help! You need to learn that it is not wrong to feel angry, even as an adult (remember—you have a heartbeat). Unfortunately, many of us as children were taught that anger is bad, sinful, or very frightening. Anger itself is not right or wrong—it is a normal response. It's what we do with anger that can be very wrong. Staying calm in the face of any feeling (anger, fear, even love) is a measure of emotional maturity. Your child will learn how to handle his anger by watching you. Our goal is to acknowledge and communicate our feelings (so our children know we are real people) and at the same time model to them the kind of real people we want them to become.

If you and your child have a healthy relationship, you don't have to worry that an occasional emotional outburst will harm your child. In fact, it's healthy for a child to know you're annoyed or angry. Honest communication sometimes requires honest anger that does not frighten or shame the child. Here is how one mother (she and her child have a healthy attachment) used healthy anger to get through to her child:

Discipline story. When my son was three, I was totally exasperated with his behavior one day. He was in what my husband and I call "a dip" -- a temporary low spot in maturity and judgment on his life road. He was being exceptionally testing that day, and after repeated time-outs, which apparently meant nothing to him, exile to his room was the next step. I sat him on his bed. He raced me to the door. I tried it again a bit more firmly (as though there was some sort of adhesive on his pants that wasn't working properly). He did the same thing again (of course). I sat him on the bed again, a little too firmly, I felt, and was angry at myself. I sat on the bed with him, and was angry clear through, so I said very loudly, "Listen! Do you think this is a fun game for me? It isn't! In fact, I hate it! Do you know why I am here! Do you know why I'm going to keep it up until you get it right? Because I love you, and I'm not just going to stand by and watch you grow up and act like a jerk!" I was livid and couldn't even stop myself from shouting the words, "I love you" in total anger.
But when Sammy heard the word "jerk" he laughed. It wasn't a giddy what's- going-to-happen-to-me-now kind of laugh, it was a sincere giggle at something funny. I realized then that he had never heard the word 'jerk' before. What did he think it meant? Taken literally, I suppose it must have conjured up a pretty comical mental picture. This little levity, though, gave us the needed opportunity to talk calmly and resolve the issue with quiet 'I love you's' and hugs, then he completed the required time-out in his room, followed by more love and hugs.

My point in relating this story is you can read all you want about how to teach your children what is right, but in the heat of the battle when your wits are at their end, you're going to revert to just being yourself and saying what you think on a gut level. This is risky, of course, and potentially damaging if it gets out of hand. Yet when your relationship with your child is based on a solid attachment, letting yourself go will most often work to your advantage. Sometimes sincerity is the only thing that will penetrate even the toughest brick wall that stubborn children set up.

6. Lighten up the perfectionist
 Children need to learn that it's all right to goof. You can lighten up the uptight child by modeling ways to handle mistakes. You spill your coffee, you laugh it off, "I guess I win the Mr. Messy award today." You don't rant and rave when you leave the shopping list at home. Children learn that adults mess up, too. It's all right to mess up and it's normal not to be perfect. This is especially true of the perfectionist who may feel that approval—and therefore his value—depends on error-free living at home and at school. We realized that Matthew was very hard on himself when he didn't get a task done perfectly at home or at school. We realized he was picking up on our tendency to become angry at our own mistakes. once he saw us lightening up on ourselves, he lightened up on himself. Mistakes are a good way to learn, and we do a lot of learning in our family. When one of us makes a mistake, someone is sure to comment: "Now, what can we learn from this situation?" If the anger button gets pushed this won't work. Be careful not to react in an angry way when someone spills his milk or tears his pants. Just say, "Now what can we learn from this?" Then, maybe even have a laugh over it. The laugh part will take a lot of work, though, if you were punished angrily for every mistake you made as a child. 

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10 Reasons To Avoid Instant Noodles

10 Reasons To Avoid Instant Noodles

 

10 Reasons To Avoid Instant Noodles
1. Nutrient Absorption : Noodles inhibit the absorption of nutrients for the children under 5.

2. Cancer Causing : The ingredient in the instant noodles called "Styrofoam', Which is a cancer causing agent.

3. Miscarriage : Women who are Eating instant noodles during their pregnancy causes miscarriage, because it affect the development of a foetus.

4. Junk Food : instant noodles are enriched with full of carbohydrates,but no vitamins, fiber and minerals. This makes the instant noodles considered as a junk food.

5. Sodium : Instant noodles are power packed with high amounts of sodium. Excess consumption of sodium leads to heart disease, stroke, hypertension and kidney damage.

6. MSG : Monosodium Glutamate is used to enhance the flavour of instant noodles. People who are allergic to MSG consume it as part of their diet, then they end up suffering from headaches, facial flushing, pain, burning sensations.

7. Overweight : Eating Noodles is the leading cause of obesity. Noodles contains fat and large amounts of sodium, which causes water retention in the body and surely it leads to overweight.

8. Digestion : Instant noodles are bad for digestive system. Regular consumption of instant noodles causes irregular bowl movements and bloating.

9. Propylene Glycol : The ingredient in the instant noodles called "Propylene Glycol" which has a anti-freeze property. This ingredient is used because it prevents the noodles from drying by retaining moisture. It weakens the immune system of our body. It is easily absorbed by the body and it accumulates in the kidneys, heart and liver. It causes abnormalities and damage to those areas.

10. Metabolism : Regular consumption of instant noodles affect the body's metabolism, because of the chemical substances like additives, coloring and preservatives inside the noodles.

 

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Amraaz Ka Rohani ilaaj

Amraaz Ka Rohani ilaaj


Amraaz Ka Rohani ilaaj
۱   حفاظت ایمان:
اللہ تعالیٰ کی نعمتوں میں سب سے بڑی نعمت ایمان کی دولت ہے۔اس کی حفاظت ہر مسلمان کا محبوب فرض ہونا چاہیے۔بعض اکابر اولیاء کرام سے منقول ہے کہ جو شخص مغرب کے بعد کی دوسنتوں میں سے پہلی رکعت میں سورہٴ فاتحہ کے بعد سورہٴ فلق اور دوسری رکعت میں سورہٴ فاتحہ کے بعد سورہٴ والناس ہمیشہ پڑھا کرے تو اس کا ایمان بھی محفوط رہے گا اور خاتمہ ایمان پر ہوگا۔
حضرت امام ابوحنیفہ رحمة اللہ تعالیٰ علیہ نے فرمایا کہ جو شخص ایمان کی دولت میسر آنے پر ہمیشہ خدا تعالیٰ کا شکریہ ادا کرتا رہے گا، اس کا ایمان بھی محفوظ رہے گا اور خاتمہ ایمان پر ہو گا۔ بلکہ خدا تعالیٰ کے وعدہ کے مطابق کہ ”
لَئِنْ شَکَرْتُمْ لاَ زِیْدَنَّکُمْ “ کہ اگر تم ہماری نعمتوں کا شکر ادا کرو گے تو ہم ان نعمتوں میں اضافہ کر دیں گے۔
خدا تعالیٰ کے وعدہ کے مطابق ایمان میں قوت اور ایمانی کاموں میں برکت ہوگی ان شاء اللہ۔

تجارت میں برکت:
جمعرات کے دن یہ آیت ہرن کی جھلی پر لکھ کر کپڑے میں لپیٹ کر دوکان کے دروازے کی چوکھٹ یا باغ کی زمین میں دفن کرنے سے بے پناہ خیر و برکت ہوتی ہے۔
اَوْکَالَّذِیْ مَرَّ عَلٰی قَرْیَةٍ وَّہِیَ خَاوِیَةٌ عَلٰی عُرُوْشِہَاج قَالَ اَنّٰی یُحْی ہٰذِہِ اللّٰہُ بَعْدَ مَوْتِہَاج فَاَمَاتَہُ اللّٰہُ مِائَةَ عَامٍ ثُمَّ بَعَثَہط قَالَ کَمْ لَبِثْتَط قَالَ لَبِثْتُ یَوْمًااَوْ بَعْضَ یَوْمٍط قَالَ بَلْ لَّبِثْتَ مِائَةَ عَامٍ فَانْظُرْ اِلٰی طَعَامِکَ وَشَرَابِکَ لَمْ یَتَسَنَّہْج وَانْظُرْ اِلٰی حِمَارِکَقف وَلِنَجْعَلَکَ اٰیَةً لِّلنَّاسِ وَانْظُرْ اِلَی الْعِظَامِ کَیْفَ نُنْشِزُہَا ثُمَّ نَکْسُوْہَا لَحْمًاط فَلَمَّا تَبَیَّنَ لَہ لا قَالَ اَعْلَمُ اَنَّ اللّٰہَ عَلٰی کُلِّ شَیْءٍ قَدِیْرٌ
۲۔    ان آیتوں کو لکھ کر سامانِ تجارت میں رکھنا خیر و برکت کا باعث ہو گا۔ اِنَّ اللّٰہَ اشْتَرٰی مِنَ الْمُوٴْمِنِیْنَ اَنْفُسَہُمْ وَاَمْوَالَہُمْ بِاَنَّ لَہُمُ الْجَنَّةَط یُقَاتِلُوْنَ فِیْ سَبِیْلِ اللّٰہِ فَیَقْتُلُوْنَ وَیُقْتَلُوْنَقف وَعْدًا عَلَیْہِ حَقًّا فِی التَّوْرٰةِ وَالْاِنْجِیْلِ وَالْقُرْاٰنِط وَمَنْ اَوْفٰی بِعَہْدِہ مِنَ اللّٰہِ فَاسْتَبْشِرُوْا بِبَیْعِکُمُ الَّذِیْ بَایَعْتُمْ بِہط وَذٰلِکَ ہُوَ الْفَوْزُ الْعَظِیْم
۳۔    کاروبار کی ترقی کے واسطے ان آیتوں کو زیتون کے چار پتوں پر لکھ کر مکان یا دوکان کے چاروں گوشوں میں دفن کر دے تو ان شاء اللہ خریداروں کی کثرت ہو گی۔ الٓمّٓرٰقف تِلْکَ اٰیٰتُ الْکِتٰبِ وَالَّذِیْٓ اُنْزِلَ اِلَیْکَ مِنْ رَّبِّکَ الْحَقُّ وَلٰکِنَّ اَکْثَرَ النَّاسِ لاَ یُوٴْمِنُوْنَ (۱) اَللّٰہُ الَّذِیْ رَفَعَ السَّمٰوٰتِ بِغَیْرِ عَمَدٍ تَرَوْنَہَا ثُمَّ اسْتَوٰی عَلَی الْعَرْشِ وَسَخَّرَ الشَّمْسَ وَالْقَمَرَط کُلٌّ یَّجْرِیْ لِاَجَلٍ مُّسَمًّیط یُدَبِّرُ الْاَمْرَ یُفَصِّلُ الْاٰیٰتِ لَعَلَّکُمْ بِلِقَآءِ رَبِّکُمْ تُوْقِنُوْنَ (۲) وَہُوَ الَّذِیْ مَدَّ الْاَرْضَ وَجَعَلَ فِیْہَا رَوَاسِیَ وَاَنْہٰرًاط وَمِنْ کُلِّ الثَّمَرٰتِ جَعَلَ فِیْہَا زَوْجَیْنِ اثْنَیْنِ یُغْشِی الَّیْلَ النَّہَارَط اِنَّ فِیْ ذٰلِکَ لَاٰیٰتٍ لِّقَوْمٍ یَّتَفَکَّرُوْنَ
۴۔    جمعرات کے دن باوضو اس آیت کو لکھ کر مکان یا دوکان کے دروازے پر لٹکانے سے خیرو برکت ہو۔ قُلْ اِنَّ الْفَضْلَ بِیَدِ اللّٰہِ یُوٴْتِیْہِ مَنْ یَّشَآءُ وَاللّٰہُ وَاسِعٌ عَلِیْمٌ ۔ یَّخْتَصُّ بِرَحْمَتِہ مَنْ یَّشَآئُط وَاللّٰہُ ذُو الْفَضْلِ الْعَظِیْم

۵۔    جو شخص جمعہ کے دن بعد عصر آیة الکرسی تین سو تیرہ مرتبہ پڑھے تو ایسی خیرو برکت ہو گی کہ جس کا وہم و گمان بھی نہ ہو۔ ۶۔    بعد فراغت نماز جمعہ اس آیت کو لکھ کر مکان یا دوکان میں رکھنے سے خیر و برکت اور رزق میں اضافہ ہوتا ہے۔ وَلَقَدْ مَکَّنّٰکُمْ فِی الْاَرْضِ وَجَعَلْنَا لَکُمْ فِیْہَا مَعَایِشَط قَلِیْلاً مَّا تَشْکُرُوْنَ
۷۔    یہ آیت سیب کے ٹکڑے پر لکھ کر خزانہ میں رکھ دے۔ ان شاء اللہ بہت برکت ہو گی۔ ذٰلِکَ فَضْلُ اللّٰہِ یُوٴْتِیْہِ مَنْ یَّشَآئُط وَاللّٰہُ ذُو الْفَضْلِ الْعَظِیْمِ

کشائش رزق: مُحَمَّدٌ رَسُولُ اللّٰہِ اَحْمَدُ رَسُوْلُ اللّٰہِ
جو شخص بعد نماز جمعہ پاک صاف ہو کر پینتیس۳۵ مرتبہ یہ لکھ کر اپنے پاس رکھے خدا تعالیٰ اسے غیب سے رزق عطا فرمائے گا اور وہ شیطان کے شر سے محفوظ رہے گا۔
۲۔    ہر نماز کے بعد سو مرتبہ اسم باری تعالیٰ ”یا لطیف“ پڑھ کر ایک مرتبہ” اَللّٰہُ لَطِیْفٌ بِعِبَادِہ یَرْزُقُ مَنْ یَشَاءُ وَھُوَ الْقَوِیُّ الْعَزِیْزُ پڑھنے سے رزق میں برکت ہوتی ہے۔ ۳۔    بعد نماز فجر و مغرب سو مرتبہ”یَا لَطِیْفُ“ پڑھ کر تین مرتبہ یہ دعا پڑھنا رزق کے لیے نہایت مفید ہے۔ اَللّٰھُمَّ وَسِّعْ عَلَیَّ رِزْقِیْ اَللّٰھُمَّ عَطِّفْ عَلَیَّ خَلْقَکَ کَمَا صُنْتَ وَجْھِیْ عَنِ السُّجُوْدِ لِغَیْرِکَ فَصُنْہ عَنْ ذِلِّ السَّوَالِ لِغَیْرِکَ بِرَحْمَتِکَ یَا اَرْحَمَ الرَّاحِمِیْنَ۔
۴۔    جو شخص اس دعا کو پانچوں وقت نماز کے پڑھنے کا معمول بنا لے گا۔ خصوصاً نمازِ جمعہ کے بعد تو وہ شخص ہر طرح کی پریشانی و مصیبت سے بچا رہے گا ۔ اپنے دشمنوں کے شر سے محفوظ رہے گا۔اور دعا کی برکت سے خدا تعالیٰ اسے ایسی جگہ سے رزق عطا فرمائے گا کہ جہاں سے کہ وہم و گمان بھی نہ ہو گا۔اور اس قدر رزق ملے گا کہ جس کی اسے توقع بھی نہ ہوگی۔نیز اس دعا کا ہمیشہ پڑھنا قرض کی ادائیگی کے لیے نہایت مفید ہے اگر قرض پہاڑ کے برابر بھی ہو تو وہ بھی اس دعا کی برکت سے ادا ہو جائے گا۔مجرب ہے وہ دعا یہ ہے۔ یَا اَللّٰہُ یَا اَحَدُ یَا وَاحِدُ یَا مَوْجُوْدُ یَا جَوَّادُ یَا بَاسِطُ یَا کَرِیْمُ یَا وَھَّابُ یَا ذَالطُّولِ یَا غَنِیُّ یَا مُغْنِیُ یَا فَتَّاحُ یَا رَزَّاقُ یَا عَلِیْمُ یَا حَکِیْمُ یَا حَیُّ یَا قَیُّوْمُ یَا رَحْمٰنُ یَا رَحِیْمُ یَا بَدِیْعُ السَّمٰوَاتِ وَالْاَرْضِ یَا ذَالْجَلَالِ وَالْاِکْرَامِ یَا حَنَّانُ یَا مَنَّانُ اَنْفِحْنِیْ مِنْکَ بِنَفْحَةِ خَیْرٍ تُغْنِیْنِیْ بِھَا عَمَّنْ سِوَاکَ اِنْ تَسْتَفْتَحُوْا فَقَدْ جَائَکُمُ الْفَتْحُ اِنَّا فَتَحْنَا لَکَ فَتْحًا مُبِیْنًا نَصْرٌ مِنَ اللّٰہِ وَفَتْحٌ قَرِیْبٌ اَللّٰھُمَّ یَا غَنِیُّ یَاحَمِیْدُ یَا مُبْدِیٴُ یَا مُعِیْدُ یَا وَدُوْدُ یَا ذَالْعَرْشِ الْمَجِیْدِ یَا فَعَّالٌ لِمَا یُرِیْدُ اَکْفِنِیْ بِحَلَالِکَ عَنْ حَرَامِکَ وَاغْنِنِیْ بِفَضْلِکَ عَمَّنْ سِوَاکَ وَاحْفِظْنِیْ بِمَا حَفِظْتَ بِہ الذِّکْرَ وَانْصُرْنِیْ بِمَا نَصَرْتَ بِہ الرُّسُلَ اِنَّکَ عَلٰی کُلِّ شَیءٍ قَدِیْرٌ۔
۵۔    ابتدائی مہینہ کے جمعہ سے چالیس جمعہ تک بعد مغرب ان آیتوں کو گیارہ مرتبہ پڑھے اور آیت ”وَلَقَدْ مَکَنَّا کُمْ فِیْ الْاَرْضِ وَ جَعَلْنَا لَکُمْ فِیْھَا مَعَایِشَ قَلِیْلًا مَا تَشْکُرُوْنَ“ ہر جمعہ کو کاغذ پر لکھ کر کنوئیں میں ڈالتا جائے۔ان شاء اللہ اس عمل کے نتیجہ میں غنی ہو جائے گا۔ ثُمَّ اَنْزَلَ عَلَیْکُمْ مِّنْم بَعْدِ الْغَمِّ اَمَنَةً نُّعَاسًا یَّعْشٰی طَآئِفَةً مِّنْکُمْلا وَطَائِفَةٌ قَدْ اَہَمَّتْہُمْ اَنفُسُہُمْ یَظُنُّوْنَ بِاللّٰہِ غَیْرَ الْحَقِّ ظَنَّ الْجَاہِلِیَّةِط یَقُوْلُوْنَ ہَلْ لَّنَا مِنَ الْاَمْرِ مِنْ شَیْءٍ قُلْ اِنَّ الْاَمْرَ کُلَّہ لِلَّہِط یُخْفُوْنَ فِیْٓ اَنْفُسِہِمْ مَّا لاَ یُبْدُوْنَ لَکَ یَقُوْلُونَ لَوْکَانَ لَنَا مِنَ الْاَمْرِ شَیْءٌ مَّا قُتِلْنَا ہٰہُنَا قُلْ لَّوْ کُنْتُمْ فِیْ بُیُوْتِکُمْ لَبَرَزَ الَّذِیْنَ کُتِبَ عَلَیْہِمُ الْقَتْلُ اِلٰی مَضَاجِعِہِمْ وَلِیَبْتَلِیَ اللّٰہُ مَا فِیْ صُدُوْرِکُمْ وَلِیُمَحِّصَ مَا فِیْ قُلُوْبِکُمْ وَاللّٰہُ عَلِیْمٌ بِذَاتِ الصُّدُوْرِ ۔
۶۔    جو شخص ان آیتوں کو بکثرت فرض نمازوں کے بعد اور نوافل کے بعد پڑھے گا اس کے رزق میں وسعت اور اس کے مال میں برکت ہوگی اور تنگ دستی دور ہوگی۔ قُلِ اللّٰہُمَّ مٰلِکَ الْمُلْکِ تُوٴْتِی الْمُلْکَ مَنْ تَشَآءُ وَتَنْزِعُ الْمُلْکَ مِمَّنْ تَشَآئُز وَتُعِزُّ مَنْ تَشَآءُ وَتُذِلُّ مَنْ تَشَآئُط بِیَدِکَ الْخَیْرُطاِنَّکَ عَلٰی کُلِّ شَیْءٍ قَدِیْرٌ۔ تُوْلِجُ الَّیْلَ فِی النَّہَارِ وَتُوْلِجُ النَّہَارَ فِی الَّیْلِز وَتُخْرِجُ الْحَیَّ مِنَ الْمَیِّتِ وَتُخْرِجُ الْمَیِّتَ مِنَ الْحَیِّز وَتَرْزُقُ مَنْ تَشَآءَ بِغَیْرِ حِسَاب
۷۔    سورہٴ مزمل کا چالیس روز تک اس ترکیب کے ساتھ وقت مقررہ پر پڑھنا کشائشِ رزق کے لیے نہایت مفید ہے جگہ بھی متعین ہو تو بہتر ہے پہلے گیارہ مرتبہ درود شریف پڑھے۔ پھر گیارہ سو گیارہ مرتبہ ”یا مغنی“اس کے بعد گیارہ مرتبہ سورہٴ مزمل پڑھ کر کشائشِ رزق کے لیے دعا کرے پھر گیارہ مرتبہ درود شریف پڑھ کر ختم کرو۔ اگر اس عمل کو اپنا معمول بنا لیا جائے تو غیب سے طرح طرح کی امداد ہو۔
۸۔    چاندی کی انگوٹھی پر یہ آیت کندہ کرا کر پہننا بہت مفید ہے۔ایسی جگہ سے رزق ملے کہ وہم و گمان بھی نہ ہو۔ ثُمَّ بَعَثْنٰکُمْ مِّنْم بَعْدِ مَوْتِکُمْ لَعَلَّکُمْ تَشْکُرُوْنَ ۔ وَظَلَّلْنَا عَلَیْکُمُ الْغَمَامَ وَاَنْزَلْنَا عَلَیْکُمُ الْمَنَّ وَالسَّلْوٰی کُلُوْا مِنْ طَیِّبٰتِ مَا رَزَقْنٰکُمْ۔
۹۔    جب گھر میں داخل ہو تو قل ھو اللہ احد پوری سورت پڑھ لیا کرے۔ان شاء اللہ اس کے رزق میں برکت ہوگی۔ ۱۰۔    سورہٴ الم نشرح اور سورہٴ کافرون کی کثرت خیر و برکت اور کثرت رزق کے لیے نہایت مفید ہے۔ ۱۱۔    رمضان شریف کا چاند دیکھنے کے بعد تین مرتبہ سورہٴ فتح پڑھ لینے سے پورا سال رزق ملتا رہے گا۔ ۱۲۔    ہر روز گیارہ سو گیارہ مرتبہ”یا معنی“ اور چالیس مرتبہ سورہٴ مزمل اگر چالیس مرتبہ نہ پڑھ سکے تو کم از کم گیارہ مرتبہ پڑھنے سے رزق کثیر ملے ۔مجرب ہے۔ ۱۳۔    نماز چاشت کے بعد روزانہ سو مرتبہ”یا باسط“پڑھنے سے رزق میں فراخی ہو گی۔ ۱۴۔    نصف رات کے بعد وضو دو رکعت نماز کشائش رزق کی نیت سے پڑھے ۔پہلی رکعت میں سورہٴ فاتحہ کے بعد پندرہ مرتبہ سورہٴ اخلاص اور دوسری رکعت میں بھی سورہٴ فاتحہ کے بعد سورہٴ اخلاص پندرہ مرتبہ پڑھے۔ پھر قبلہ کی طرف رخ کر کے ایک ہزار مرتبہ ”بِسْمِ اللّٰہِ الرَّحْمٰنِ الرَّحِیْمِ“ اور ایک ہزار مرتبہ” یَا خَفِیَّ الْاَلَْطَافِ اَدْرِکْنِیْ بِلُطْفٍ خَفِیٍّپھر ایک ہزار مرتبہ یا بدوح پڑھ کر دو رکعت پھر نماز پڑھے اور اس کا ثواب سید علی الہمدانی قدس سرہ کی روح کو پہنچائے۔ ۱۵۔    روز ایک ہزار مرتبہ یا حی یا قیوم اور ایک ہزار مرتبہ”یاوھاب“ کا پڑھنا کشائش رزق کے لیے نہایت مفید ہے۔
۱۷۔    ہر نماز کے بعد یہ آیت پڑھنا رز ق کے لیے نہایت مفید ہے۔ لَقَدْ جَآءَ کُمْ رَسُوْلٌ مِّنْ اَنْفُسِکُمْ عَزِیْزٌ عَلَیْہِ مَا عَنِتُّمْ حَرِیْصٌ عَلَیْکُمْ بِالْمُوٴْمِنِیْنَ رَءُ وْفٌ رَّحِیْمٌ ۔ فَاِنْ تَوَلَّوْا فَقُلْ حَسْبِیَ اللّٰہُزقصلے لَآ اِلٰہَ اِلاَّ ہُوَط عَلَیْہِ تَوَکَّلْتُ وَہُوَ رَبُّ الْعَرْشِ الْعَظِیْمِ
۱۸۔    جو شخص آیة الکرسی مع بسم اللہ خالدون تک اورپوری سورہٴ فلق مع بسم اللہ اور پوری سورہٴ والناس اور قُلْ لَّنْ یُّصِیْبَنَآ اِلاَّ مَا کَتَبَ اللّٰہُ لَنَاج ہُوَ مَوْلٰنَاوَعَلَی اللّٰہِ فَلْیَتَوَکَّلِ الْمُوٴْمِنُوْنَ
پڑھنے کا معمول بنا لے گا۔اس کے رزق میں اضافہ ہو گا۔
۱۹۔    بعد نماز فجر اول و آخر چودہ چودہ مرتبہ درود شریف اور پھر چودہ سو بار ”یا وھاب“ اس عمل کا پڑھنے والا کبھی رزق سے محروم نہیں رہے گا۔بلکہ اہل اللہ نے لکھا ہے کہ اس کی نسلیں بھی کثرت رزق سے شاد کام رہیں گی۔

یرقان

جسے یرقان ہو گیا ہو اسے سورہٴ لم یکن الذی لکھ کر گلے میں ڈالا جائے ان شاء اللہ العزیز یرقان جاتا رہے گا۔مجرب ہے۔

سَبَّحَ لِلّٰہِ مَا فِیْ السَّمٰوٰتِ وَمَا فِیْ الاَرْضِ وَ ھُوَ الْعَزِیْزُ الْحَکِیْم۔
۲۔    ایک سو ایک بار یہ آیت پانی پر دم کر کے پلانا یرقان کے لیے بہت مفید ہے۔ ۳۔    تین سو بار اسم باری تعالیٰ الحسیب پانی پر دم کر کے اکیس دن تک پلانے سے ان شاء اللہ یرقان ختم ہو جائے گا۔

درد بازو

داہنے بازو میں درد ہو تو تین بار یہ آیت پڑھ کر درد کی جگہ پر دم کیا جائے ان شاء اللہ درد جاتا رہے گا۔
وَاَمَّا مَنْ اُوْتِیَ کِتَابَہ بِشِمَالِہ فَیَقُوْلُ ھَآوٴُمُ اقْرَوٴُ کِتَابِیَہ۔

وَاَصْحٰبُ الْیَمِیْنِ ۔فِیْ سِدْرٍ مَّخْضُوْدٍ ۔
۲۔    جس کے بائیں بازو میں دردہو اسے یہ آیت لکھ کر جس جگہ درد ہو وہاں باندھا جائے ان شاء اللہ درد ختم ہو جائے گا۔ ۳۔    بازو میں تکلیف ہو تو سوہٴ طارق تل کے تیل پر دم کر کے مالش کرنے سے درد دفع ہو جائے گا۔ ۴۔    سورہٴ ہمزہ با بونہ کے تیل پر دم کر کے بازو میں لگانا درد وغیرہ کے لیے بہت مفید ہے۔

درد گردہ

سورہٴ لایلف کھانے پر دم کر کے کھلانا دردِ گردہ کو نافع ہے۔

وَاَنَّ الْمَسَاجِدَ لِلّٰہِ فَلَاْتَدْعُوْا مَعَ اللّٰہِ اَحَدٌ وَّاَنَّہ لَمَّا قَامَ عَبْدُاللّٰہِ یَدْعُوْہ کَادُوْ یَکُوْنُوْنَ عَلَیْہِ لِبَدًا۔

وَہُوَ الَّذِیْ یُرْسِلُ الرِّیٰحَ بُشْرًامبَیْنَ یَدَیْ رَحْمَتِہ حَتّٰیٓ اِذَآ اَقَلَّتْ سَحَابًا ثِقَالاً سُقْنٰہُ لِبَلَدٍ مَّیِّتٍ فَاَنْزَلْنَا بِہِ الْمَآءَ فَاَخْرَجْنَا بِہ مِنْ کُلِّ الثَّمَرٰتِ کَذٰلِکَ نُخْرِجُ الْموْتٰی لَعَلَّکُمْ تَذَکَّرُوْن

یٰٓاَیُّہَا النَّاسُ قَدْجَآءَ تْکُمْ مَّوْعِظَةٌ مِّنْ رَّبِّکُمْ وَشِفَآءٌ لِّمَا فِی الصُّدُوْرِ۵لا وَہُدًی وَّرَحْمَةٌ لِّلْمُوٴْمِنِیْنَ قُلْ بِفَضْلِ اللّٰہِ وَبِرَحْمَتِہ فَبِذٰلِکَ فَلْیَفْرَحُوْاط ہُوَ خَیْرٌ مِّمَّا یَجْمَعُوْنَ۔

سَبَّحَ لِلّٰہِ مَا فِی السَّمٰوٰتِ وَالْاَرْضِ وَہُوَ الْعَزِیْزُ الْحَکِیْمُ لَہ مُلْکُ السَّمٰوٰتِ وَالْاَرْضِ یُحْی وَیُمِیْتُ وَہُوَ عَلٰی کُلِّ شَیْءٍ قَدِیْرٌ ہُوَ الْاَوَّلُ وَالْاٰخِرُ وَالظَّاہِرُ وَالْبَاطِنُ وَہُوَ بِکُلِّ شَیْءٍ عَلِیْمٌ ہُوَ الَّذِیْ خَلَقَ السَّمٰوٰتِ وَالْاَرْضَ فِیْ سِتَّةِ اَیَّامٍ ثُمَّ اسْتَوٰی عَلَی الْعَرْشِ یَعْلَمُ مَا یَلِجُ فِی الْاَرْضِ وَمَا یَخْرُجُ مِنْہَا وَمَا یَنْزِلُ مِنَ السَّمَآءِ وَمَا یَعْرُجُ فِیْہَا وَہُوَ مَعَکُمْ اَیْنَ مَا کُنْتُمْ وَاللّٰہُ بِمَا تَعْمَلُوْنَ بَصِیْرٌ لَہ مُلْکُ السَّمٰوٰتِ وَالْاَرْضِ وَاِلَی اللّٰہِ تُرْجَعُ الْاُمُوْرُ یُوْلِجُ الَّیْلَ فِی النَّہَارِ وَیُوْلِجُ النَّہَارَ فِی الَّیْلِ وَہُوَ عَلِیْمٌبِذَاتِ الصُّدُوْرِ۔
۲۔    اگر گردہ میں د رد ہو تو یہ آیت مشک و زعفران سے لکھ کر جس جگہ درد ہو وہاں باندھا جائے۔دردِ گردہ کے لیے بہت مفیدہے۔ ۳۔    دردِ گردہ کے لیے اکیس مرتبہ یہ آیت پانی پر دم کر کے پلانا بہت فائدہ پہنچاتاہے۔ ۴۔    اگر گردہ میں پتھری ہو گئی ہو تو سورہٴ تبت یدا اور یہ آیت چینی کی رکابی پر لکھ کر عرق مکوہ سے دھو کر گیارہ دن تک پلانا نہایت ہی مفید ہے۔ ۵۔    بارش کے پانی پر اکیس مرتبہ یہ آیت دم کر کے پلانا دردِ گردہ کی پتھری میں فائدہ پہنچاتا ہے۔

درد مثانہ

مثانہ میں درد ہو تو گیارہ روز تک گیارہ مرتبہ یہ آیت پانی پر دم کر کے پلایا جائے۔
قُلْ یٰعِبَادِیَ الَّذِیْنَ اَسْرَفُوْا عَلٰٓی اَنْفُسِہِمْ لَا تَقْنَطُوْا مِنْ رَّحْمَةِ اللّٰہِ اِنَّ اللّٰہَ یَغْفِرُ الذُّنُوْبَ جَمِیْعًا اِنَّہ ہُوَ الْغَفُوْرُ الرَّحِیْمُ ۔

اَلَمْ نَجْعَلْ لَہ  عَیْنَیْنِ وَ لِسَانًا وَ شَفَتَیْنِ وَھَدَیْنَاہ
۲۔    مثانہ کے درد میں اکتالیس مرتبہ یہ آیت عرق گلاب پر دم کر کے پلانا بہت مفید ہے۔

النَّجْدَیْنِ ۔

پشاب کی بندش

اگر پیشاب کا آنا بند ہو گیا ہو تو اکہتر (۷۱) مرتبہ یہ آیت پانی پر دم کر کے مریض کو پلایا جائے اور لکھ کر گلے میں ڈال دیا جائے۔ ان شاء اللہ پیشاب جاری ہو جائے گا۔مجرب ہے۔
وَاِذِ اسْتَسْقٰی مُوْسٰی لِقَوْمِہ فَقُلْنَا اضْرِبْ بِّعَصَاکَ الْحَجَرَ فَانْفَجَرَتْ مِنْہُ اثْنَتَا عَشْرَةَ عَیْناً قَدْ عَلِمَ کُلُّ اُنَاسٍ مَّشْرَبَہُمْط کُلُوْا وَاشْرَبُوْا مِنْ رِّزْقِ اللّٰہِ وَلاَ تَعْثَوْا فِی الْاَرْضِ مُفْسِدِیْنَ۔

وَجَعَلْنَا مَنَ الْمَآءِ کُلَّ شَیْءٍ حَیّ اَفَلَا یُوٴْمِنُوْنَ

فَفَتَحْنَا اَبْوَابَ السَّمَآءِ بِمَاءٍ مُنْھَمِرٍ وَفَجَّرْنَا الْاَرْضَ عُیُوْنًا فَالْتَقَی الْمَاءَ عَلٰی اَمْرٍ قَدْ قُدِرَ۔
۲۔    عرق گلاب پر ایک سو ایک بار یہ آیت دم کر کے پلانے سے پیشاب کی رکاوٹ ختم ہو جائے گی۔ ۳۔    ایک شخص کا پیشاب بالکل رک گیا تھا تو کسی بزرگ نے یہ آیت لکھ کر باندھ دی جس سے فوراً پیشاب جاری ہو گیا۔ ۴۔    پیشاب کی رکاوٹ دور کرنے کے لیے سورہٴ اخلاص گیارہ مرتبہ پانی پر دم کر کے پلایا جائے۔

پشاب کی زیادتی

اگر پیشاب بستر میں نکل جاتا ہو تو سات مرتبہ یہ آیت لکھ کر پانی میں گھول کر پلایا جائے۔
یَا اَرْضُ ابْلَعِیْ مَآئَکِ وَیٰسَمَآءُ اَقْلَعِی وَ غِیْضَ الْمَآءُ وَقُضِیَ الْاَمْرُ۔

وَاَنْزَلْنَا مِنَ السَّمَآءِ مَآءً بِقَدَرٍ فَاَسْکَنّٰہُ فِیْ الاْاَرْضِ وَانَا ذِھَابٍ بِہ لَقٰدِرُوْنَ
۲۔    پیشاب بکثرت آتا ہو تو اکتالیس بار یہ آیت چینی پر دم کر کے چٹانے سے یہ مرض اجتا رہے گا۔ ۳۔    سورہٴ فاتحہ اکیس مرتبہ تلوں پر دم کر کے گیارہ دن تک کھلایا جائے ان شاء اللہ کثرت پیشاب کامرض ختم ہو جائے گا۔

آتشک

سورہٴ تکویر آبِ زم زم پر دم کر کے پلانا آتشک کے لیے بہت مفید ہے۔

وَالنّٰزِعٰتِ غَرْقًا۔ وَّالنّٰشِطٰتِ نَشْطًا۔ وَّالسّٰبِحٰتِ سَبْحًا۔ فَالسّٰبِقٰتِ سَبْقًا ۔ فَالْمُدَبِّرٰتِ اَمْرًا۔
۲۔    ایک سو ایک بار یہ آیت پانی پر دم کر کے اکتالیس روز تک پلایا جائے ان شاء اللہ آتشک کا مرض جاتا رہے گا۔

جریان

جریان کے مریض کو سورہٴ حجرات تین بار پانی پر دم کر کے اکتالیس روز تک پلایا جائے۔ان شاء اللہ شفایاب ہو جائے گا۔


رَبَّنَا اَتْمِمْ لَنَا نُوْرَنَا وَاغْفِرْلَنَا اِنَّکَ عَلٰی کُلِّ شَیْءٍ قَدِیْر۔
۲۔    جسے جریان ہو گیا ہو اسے بعد نماز مغرب سورہٴ فاطر پوست اسبغول پر دم کر کے مسلسل اکیس روز تک استعمال کرایا جائے۔ ۳۔    بعد نماز عصر اول و آخر سات سات مرتبہ درود شریف اور سو بار یہ آیت پڑھنا جریان کے لیے بہت مفید ہے۔

نامردی

جو شخص جماع پر قادر نہ ہو اسے بعد نماز فجر یہ آیت مرغی کے انڈے پر دم کر کے اکتالیس روز تک مسلسل کھلایا جائے۔ ان شاء اللہ وہ جماع پر قادر ہو جائے گا۔ مجرب ہے۔
یٰٓاَیُّہَا النَّاسُ اتَّقُوْا رَبَّکُمُ الَّذِیْ خَلَقَکُمْ مِّنْ نَّفْسٍ وَّاحِدَةٍ وَّخَلَقَ مِنْہَا زَوْجَہَا وَبَثَّ مِنْہُمَا رِجَالاً کَثِیْرًا وَّنِسَآءً وَاتَّقُوا اللّٰہَ الَّذِیْ تَسَآءَ لُوْنَ بِہ وَالْاَرْحَامَ اِنَّ اللّٰہَ کَانَ عَلَیْکُمْ رَقِیْبًا۔

اَلرِّجَالُ قَوَّامُوْنَ عَلٰی النِّسَآءِ۔
۲۔    نامرد کو یہ آیت ایک سو مرتبہ تخمِ مولی پر دم کر کے اکیس دن تک گائے کے دودھ کے ساتھ استعمال کرانا بہت مفیدہے۔ ۳۔    صبح و شام اول و آخر تین تین مرتبہ درود شریف اور ایک ہزار مرتبہ یا قوی یا معین کا ورد نامردی دور کرنے کے لیے بہت نافع ہے۔ ۴۔    روزانہ بعد نماز فجر تین سو بار ایاک نعبد و ایاک نستعین تین چلہ تک پڑھنا نامردی میں فائدہ بخش ہے۔

احتلام

اگر سوتے وقت سورہٴ نوح پڑھ لیا جائے تو احتلام سے حفاظت رہتی ہے۔

۲۔    اگر کثرت احتلام کا مرض ہو تو سورہٴ معارج لکھ کر اپنے پاس رکھے انشاء اللہ احتلام سے محفوظ رہے گا۔ ۳۔    سوتے وقت شہادت کی انگلی سے اپنے سینے پر یا عمر اس طرح لکھے کہ پڑھنے والے کے سامنے سیدھا ہو۔ بفضلہ تعالیٰ کثرت احتلام کا مرض جاتا رہے گا۔ ۴۔    بستر پر جاتے وقت سورہٴ والطارق پڑھ لیا کرے تو کبھی کثرت احتلام کا مرض نہیں ہوگا اور اگر پہلے سے یہ مرض ہو گا تو بالکل ختم ہو جائے گا۔بہت مجرب ہے۔

بواسیر

یہ آیت لکھ کر بازو پر باندھنا بواسیر کے لیے بہت مفید ہے۔
لَا یَرَوْنَ فِیْھَا شَمْسًا وَلَا زَمْھَرِیْرًا




وَاِذْ یَرْفَعُ اِبْرٰہمُ الْقَوَاعِدَ مِنَ الْبَیْتِ وَاِسْمٰعِیْلُ رَبَّنَا تَقَبَّلْ مِنَّاط اِنَّکَ اَنْتَ السَّمِیْعُ الْعَلِیْمُ رَبَّنَا وَاجْعَلْنَا مُسْلِمَیْنِ لَکَ وَمِنْ ذُرِّیَّتِنَآ اُمَّةً مُّسْلِمَةً لَّکَ وَاَرِنَا مَنَاسِکَنَا وَتُبْ عَلَیْنَاج اِنَّکَ اَنْتَ التَّوَّابُ الرَّحِیْمُ رَبَّنَا وَابْعَثْ فِیْہِمْ رَسُوْلاً مِّنْہُمْ یَتْلُوْا عَلَیْہِمْ اٰیٰتِکَ وَیُعَلِّمُہُمُ الْکِتٰبَ وَالْحِکْمَةَ وَیُزَکِّیْہِمْ اِنَّکَ اَنْتَ الْعَزِیْزُ الْحَکِیْمُ ۔
۲۔    فجر کی سنتوں میں ہمیشہ یہ سورتیں پڑھنا بواسیر و نواسیر کے لیے بے حد فائدہ مند ہے۔ پہلی رکعت میں والضحیٰ ، الم نشرح الم ترکیف اور دوسری رکعت میں لایلف ، کافرون اور سورة اخلاص ۔ ۳۔    جسے بواسیر ہو گئی ہو وہ مغرب دو رکعت نماز اس ترکیب سے پڑھے کہ پہلی رکعت میں ”الم نشرح“ دوسری رکعت میں”الم ترکیف“ اور پھر سلام پھیر کر سو مرتبہ استغفار پڑھے بفضلہ تعالیٰ مرض میں افاقہ ہو گا۔ ۴۔    روزانہ سات سو مرتبہ اسم باری تعالیٰ یا مالک کا اکتالیس دن تک ورد کرنا بواسیر میں بہت نافع ہے۔ ۵۔    بعض بزرگوں نے تحریر فرمایا ہے کہ اس آیت کو بلوری برتن پر زعفران و گلاب سے لکھ کر سیاہ انگور کے عرق سے دھو کر اس میں تھوڑا سا کہرباء کافور اور تھوڑی سی چینی ملا کر پلانا بواسیر خونی میں بے حد مفید و مجرب ہے۔

پستانوں کا عدم ابھار:
کسی عورت کا پستان ابھرا ہوا نہ ہو، بالکل چھوٹا ہو تو چالیس دن تک یہ آیت روزانہ اکتالیس مرتبہ پانی پر دم کر کے پلایا جائے۔
اَنْزَلْنٰہُ مِنَ السَّمَآءِ فَاخْتَلَطَ بِہ نَبَاتُ الْاَرْضِ فَاَصْبَحَ ہَشِیْمًا تَذْرُوْہُ الرِّیٰحُ وَکَانَ اللّٰہُ عَلٰی کُلِّ شَیْءٍ مُّقْتَدِرًا۔

وَاِنَّ لَکُمْ فِی الْاَنْعَامِ لَعِبْرَةً نُسْقِیْکُمْ مِّمَّا فِیْ بُطُوْ نِہ مِنْمبَیْنِ فَرْثٍ وَّدَمٍ لَّبَنًا خَالِصًا سَآئِغًا لِّلشّٰرِبِیْن ۔
۲۔    پستانوں کے عدم ابھار میں یہ آیت لکھ کر چھاتی پر باندھنا بہت فائدہ مند ہے اور پستانوں میں درد ہو جب بھی یہ عمل نافع ہے۔ ۳۔    جس عورت کا پستان بہت چھوٹا ہو تو ایک ہزار مرتبہ اسم باری تعالیٰ یا ماجد پڑھ کر ہاتھ پر دم کر کے اس کی چھاتی پر ملا جائے۔

دودھ کی کمی:
اگر عورت کے پستانوں میں دودھ پیدا نہ ہوتا ہو تو ایک سو ایک بار یہ آیت بارش کے پانی پر دم کر کے پلایا جائے۔ ان شاء اللہ خوب دودھ پیدا ہو گا۔
وَ ھِیَ تَجْرِیْ بِھِمْ فِی مَوْجٍ کَالِْجِبَالِ فِیْھِمَا عَیْنٰنِ تَجْرِیٰنِ ۔

وَاَوْحَیْنَآ اِلٰٓی اُمِّ مُوْسٰٓی اَنْ اَرْضِعِیْہِ فَاِذَا خِفْتِ عَلَیْہِ فَاَلْقِیْہِ فِی الْْیَمِّ وَلَا تَخَافِیْ وَلَا تَحْزَنِیْ اِنَّا رَآدُّوْہُ اِلَیْکِ وَجَاعِلُوْہُ مِنَ الْمُرْسَلِیْنَ ۔

فَبِاَیِّ اٰٰلَآءِ رَبِّکُمَا تُکَذِّبَانِ۔


اگر پستانوں پر ورم آگیا ہو تو سورہٴ اخلاص اور معوذتین دس دس بار پانی پر دم کر کے پلایا جائے۔ ان شاء اللہ ورم ختم ہو جائے گا۔

وَاِذَا مَرِضْتُ فَھُوَ یَشْفِیْنَ ۔قُلْ ھُوَ للَّذِیْنَ اٰمَنُوْا ھُدًی وَّ شِفَآء۔
۲۔    پستانوں سے دودھ کم آتا ہو تو یہ آیت اکیس بار پانی پر دم کر کے اکیس دن تک پلایا جائے اور اسی کو لکھ کر عورت کی چھاتی پر باندھ دیا جائے۔ ۳۔    پستان میں دودھ کی کمی ہو تو یہ آیت خمیری روٹی پر لکھ کر سات روز تک کھلایا جائے۔ ۴۔    اسم باری تعالیٰ ھو الحی القیوم تین سو مرتبہ پڑھ کر دم کرنا دودھ کی کمی کو دور کرنے کے لیے بہت نافع ہے۔ ۸۸۔    ورم پستان: ۲۔    پستان ورم کر گیا ہو تو یہ آیت پڑھ کر ہاتھوں پر دم کر کے ورم شدہ جگہ پر ہاتھ پھیرا جائے۔

سیلان الرحم:
سیلان الرحم کی بیماری ہو گئی تو تین سو مرتبہ یہ آیت عرق گلاب پر دم کر کے اکتالیس روز تک پلایا جائے ان شاء اللہ مرض جاتا رہے گا۔
وَیَشْفِ صُدُوْرَ قَوْمٍ مُوٴْمِنِیْنَ وَنُنَزِّلُ مِنَ الْقُرْاٰنِ مَا ھُوَ شِفَآءٌ بِحَقِّ اِیَّاکَ نَعْبُدُ وَاِیَّاکَ نَسْتَعِیْنُ ۔

جسے حیض بہت کم مقدار میں آتا ہو اسے روزانہ سات سو مرتبہ یہ آیت آبِ زم زم پر دم کر کے ایک ہفتہ تک پلایا جائے۔ اور اسی کو لکھ کر گلے میں بھی ڈالا جائے۔
وَنُنَزِّلُ مِنَ الْقُرْاٰنِ مَا ھُوَ شِفَآء

لَاْ اِلٰہَ اِلَّاْ اَنْتَ سُبْحَانَکَ اِنِّیْ کُنْتُ مِنَ الظَّالِمِیْنَ ۔

اگر حیض کا خون زیادہ مقدار میں آتا ہو تو یہ آیت لکھ کر پیٹ پر باندھا جائے۔
صُمٌّ بُکْمٌ عُمْیٌ فَھُمْ لَا یَرْجِعُوْنَ۔
۹۰۔    کمی حیض: ۲۔    حیض کی کمی کی بیماری ہو تو روزانہ تین سو اکتالیس مرتبہ یہ آیت آبِ زم زم پر دم کر کے گیارہ روز تک پلایا جائے۔ ۹۱۔    کثرت حیض: ۲۔    حیض کا خون زیادہ آنے کی صورت میں سات دن تک سورہٴ دہر پانی پر دم کر کے پلایا جائے۔ان شاء اللہ خون کا آنا بند ہو جائے گا۔ ۳۔    تین سو تیرہ بار سورہ ٴ کو ثر روزانہ بارش کے پانی پر دم کر کے پلانا کثرت حیض کی بیماری میں بہت مفید ہے۔

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Hamal Ki Hifazat Ke Liye Wazifa to Avoid Miscarriage

Hamal Ki Hifazat Ke Liye Wazifa to Avoid Miscarriage

 

Best wazifa for a pregnant women. She or her spouse should recite this wazifa during pregnancy. All you need to do is when pregnancy symptoms appear on wife / women. Husband or the wife herself should place his or her hand on tummy/ belly of herself (pregnant women) and recite this Ism “Ya Mubbdi” 99 times daily for 1 Week and then do a blow on her or she san do a blow on herself. InshaAllah the pregnancy will be safe.
Hamal Ki Hifazat Ke Liye Wazifa to Avoid Miscarriage

Ye wazifa bhot best hai preagnacy kay dauran parhnay kay liye. Jab hamal zahir honay lage/ pata lag jaye ke pregnant hai. Uske bad jo sakhs apni biwi ya mehram ke ya biwi khud kay pait par hath rakh kar ek hafta tak 99 martaba ye Ism parhkar khud pe dam kare to hamal mehfooz hoga. Agar hamal 9 mah se zyadah ho jaye to bhi iske wird sa larka paida hoga inshaAllah.
Ye wazifa mehram, shauhar ya miya bhi pait pe hath rakh kar pad sakte hai or fir dum kar sakte hai.
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Wazifa to Solve all problems Using this Powerful Amal of Verse 62 of Surah Namal

Wazifa to Solve all problems Using this Powerful Amal of Verse 62 of Surah Namal

 

The amal mentioned here is extremely beneficial for emergency conditions when people need immediate resolution for their problems.  Inshaallah, though this amal greatest calamity and every kind of need can be full filled and every incurable sickness can be cured. The amal could be done by a single person or a group of people with a common intention. InshaAllah, with these amals one will be able to achieve the following:
1. Fulfill any hajaat / lawful need. 2. Overcome any difficulty. 3. Marriage issues. 4. Fulfillment of heavy debts, overcome poverty and financial issues and for richness and wealth. 5. To overpower enemies. 6. To find good job or employment. 7. To win a court’s case. 8. Release from imprisonment. 9. To get Children. 10. Overcome famine and drought. 11. For Rain. 12. Defeat and overpower enemies and tyrant leaders. 13. Treat deadly incurable disease and sickness. It has been tried and tested several times mashallah, critical people with deadly diseases have been cured and recovered. 14. etc
This amal involves reciting of Surah Namal verse 62 about 12,000 times in a single sitting.

Wazifa to Solve all problems Using this Powerful Amal of Verse 62 of Surah Namal


Surah Namal Verse 62
Meaning: Is not He (best) Who listens to the (soul) distressed when it calls on Him, and Who relieves its suffering [Surah Namal verse 62]
1.‘Aoozubillaahi Mi-nash ShYataan Ir-rajeem BisMillaah Ir-Rah-maan Ir-Ra-heem -3x
2. ‘Astaghfirullaaha Rabbi, La Elaaha illal laahu Mohammadur Rasool-ul-laah Sallallaahu `Alayhi wa Sallam -40x
3. Subhaanal-laahi Walhamdu-Lillaahi, wa laa ilaa-ha ill-lal-laahu wallahu Akbar -40x
4. Surah Fatiha 1x, Surah Iqlaas 3x
5. Make Intention/Dua: BISMILLAAHI YA HAYYU YA QAYYUM YA ZAL JALAALI WAL IKRAM YA ARHAMAR RAHEMEEN. O Allah, Its You alone do I worship and You alone do I call for Help. O Allah, I have requested you for help using the blessed verse of Surah Namal Verse 62, O Allah by the virtues and blessings contained in it please fulfill my need……… . O Allah please accept my amal/dua by Your immense Mercy and make be independent of all except You. ’A-Ghis-ni, ‘A-Ghis-ni, ‘A-Ghis-ni Bi Rahmatika Ya Arhamar Rahemeen.’Ameen. Ya Rabbil ‘A-Lameen! – 3x.
6. Any Darood -easy one – ALLAH humma Sali’ala Muhammad Sallallaahu `Alayhi wa Sallam -21x
7. Recite – Surah Namal verse 62  -12,000x [This count should be shared if recited in a group/gathering]
8. Any Darood -easy one – ALLAH humma Sali’ala Muhammad Sallallaahu `Alayhi wa Sallam -21x
9. Raise your hands and with full humility, trust and complete faith in ALlah, repeat dua in (5) atleast 3 to 7 times
10. AMEEN. AMEEN. YA RABBIL ‘A-LAMEEN.
11. Blow 3x over the chest, then 3x into both the hands, and the wipe the hands over the face, arms and body. One should also blow into few bottles of water or sugar and olive oil and use it. The water can be used for drinking and spraying all over the house for blessings. Sugar can also be given to the sick person for eating, likewise the recited olive oil can be used to message the sick person all over the over or on places of pain.
For any case its highly recommended to drink the recited water daily and the person can also bathing with the recited water as per the instructions on this site to derive maximum blessings for the recited water.
Note: If a person is reciting this wazifa individually, he may recite this 1000x daily as per the procedure explained above to complete the counts of 12000x in 12 days.
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Tuesday, 16 December 2014

Dua Before Sexual Intercourse

Dua Before Sexual Intercourse

بِسْمِ اللهِ اللَّهُمَّ جَنِّبْنَا الشَّيْطَانَ ، وَجَنِّبِ الشَّيْطَانَ مَا رَزَقْـتَنَا
Translation
 
 
In the Name of Allah. O Allah, keep the shaytaan away from us and keep the shaytaan away from what You have blessed us with.


Note:
*The messenger of Allah said: whoever says this -du'a- and the wife was pregnant from that night, shaytan will never be able to harm the child.
Transliteration
bismillaah - allaahumma jannibnash-shayṭaana, wa jannibish-shayṭaana maa razaqtanaa
Sources: Bukhari No# 141, 3271, 6388, 7396; Muslim No# 1434; Abu Dawud No# 2161; At-Tirmidhi No# 1092
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